"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Svullo

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Hello I am an computer science student from Sweden. Where I study there aren't many girls around and my hobbies are also very male dominated.

So I never get any girls here in Sweden, the only action I ever see is when I travel abroad. In other countries it's much easier to have sex with hb's.

Why is it impossible for me to do the same back home in Sweden?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tomb

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Find out where the ladies hang and go there.
 

Svullo

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Everywhere I go the girls are either going out with their boyfriend or busy with a group of girls. I don't have enough courage to approach an entire group of girls.
 

Lifeforce

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Go to a nightclub, dance intimate with the girls, make out with them and take them home... it's easy here in sweden to get girls.

Så länge man inte är för fet för ett **** :p
 

DrMetallica

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Go to a nightclub, dance intimate with the girls, make out with them and take them home... it's easy here in sweden to get girls.

Så länge man inte är för fet för ett **** :p
Make sure to flex the muscles too... :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Levrone

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WTF man I always thought that scandinavian chicks are the best in the world and that they approach the guys.

I think you're just on the wrong places. Do you live in a big city or a small village? I don't know sweden very well but I think if you don't live in a big city you just live in the middle of nowhere (sweden is big :p).

On my vacation I met some scandinavian girls... and I can tell you they're the best. They're blond :)D) and they just go all the way. Bad thing is, I dont live in sweden.
And you live there and you don't do anything.!!!!
 

Holland

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Scandinavian girls are waaaay better looking then in the rest of Europe.
 

Svullo

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I live in Göteborg, the second largest city with a population of about 400 000 - 500 000. The thing is I am to fat for a ****...

And the bars and clubs I like to visist play heavy metal and there aren't many girls in those places, and most of them are already taken.

I believe going to a normal club would be a waste of time because I would feel even more uncomfortable around girls att normal clubs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rapsta

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Svullo read the bible man.. being fat is no excuse.. im in Malmö. peace
 

LittleBigOne

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Scandinavian girls are pretty indeed! The woman from there are looking very independent, educated and sometimes a bit cold.
It doesn't mather if you are fat. By showing self confidence and show you are not needy you can get far! It has al to do with personality! And if you show personality you can get far with Swedish girls! Any girl actualy...
Gotheborg is a large town. Enough girls over there. You should not complain, only when you life in Amal or above the artic circle!
So go get them, those Swedish girls! You make me jealous by living there!

Nice talking to you...
DW Netherlands
 
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