Dude in post before mine, **** offf. Ya'll gettin wayy too out of hand with this oneitis thing. THe dude and the chick seem to be dating if not in a relationship, so I don't see how it could be onitis, onitis is obsessing over a girl who dosn't return your feelings. He gave no indication of this. There is no problem of him being into a girl he's dating thats how u seperate the weeds from the wheat, IL.
Anyway, from what I see people are gonna have to change alot of things about themselves from time to time to mix in with certain social circles or get a certain job, become a nminister whatever it is. The important thing is that he made a conscise decisin on his own and wasn't naged or threatned for it. In this case he could end up turnin out a better person for it. A time could come when he may meeet the girls parents and I don't think cussin would make a good impression. Cussin is not a personality trait and changing it would not change your personality. However as a recovering adict, I'll have to say, its gonna be pretty %#$in hard
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THe dude below me really should get a life, personalties change evry day in some from just as cells change. U can't tell me your the exact same person u r now as 10 years ago. High school me does not = Adult me. Highschool me could not even approach a girl. Part of life and why we are human and somthing that a machine can't do is learn and chage personaality habits and the way we respond. Its what sets us appart u can't be too afraid of change, infact its what we are here on this site for.
Page3lover2 , u have to be decisive, make the decision yourself and decide if it will be benificial to you. Don't be bullied into anything. By cussin unexcusably u only make an ass of yourself anyway.