"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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swearing/cursing in front of women, thoughts?

solo1

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What are your thoughts on swearing in front of your gf/date...in such situations:

1) conversation about stuff and you're using 'fvck' 'sh!t' in your sentences.
2) you're pissed off and swearing your ass off, either to her or someone else.

Personally i try to avoid it in front of a date/girl if i can, but ill swear my ass off if easy if with friends.
yea it shows you're comfortable in your own skin, but you want to keep some kind of class in her eyes, no?

What are your general rules on/(when) swearing in front of them? Is this a turn off to certain ones?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zerocelcius

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I personally don't like to cuss in front of girls or in general. However; after the army it is hard for me not to do.

Overall I feel like cussing sounds a little ignorant.

:cuss:
 

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I think that men should minimize the use of foul words infront of women...not just for her, but because it shows some class and dignity in him.

Swearing when p*ssed off is especially bad, particularly when its directed at her. You're setting the premise for disrespect in the relationship....and that goes both ways.

There are times when a swear word just sounds good or funny, or impactive, and by all means should be used. But steady cussing as a habit sounds bad. It reflects poorly on a man and risks lowering his intellect from the perspective of the listner. You don't want anyone to think that you're a fvcked up fvcking fvcker because you're too fvcking senseless to realize that you're articulating like a d*ckfaced c0cksucking muther fvcking fvck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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