"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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swearing/cursing in front of women, thoughts?

solo1

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What are your thoughts on swearing in front of your gf/date...in such situations:

1) conversation about stuff and you're using 'fvck' 'sh!t' in your sentences.
2) you're pissed off and swearing your ass off, either to her or someone else.

Personally i try to avoid it in front of a date/girl if i can, but ill swear my ass off if easy if with friends.
yea it shows you're comfortable in your own skin, but you want to keep some kind of class in her eyes, no?

What are your general rules on/(when) swearing in front of them? Is this a turn off to certain ones?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zerocelcius

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I personally don't like to cuss in front of girls or in general. However; after the army it is hard for me not to do.

Overall I feel like cussing sounds a little ignorant.

:cuss:
 

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I think that men should minimize the use of foul words infront of women...not just for her, but because it shows some class and dignity in him.

Swearing when p*ssed off is especially bad, particularly when its directed at her. You're setting the premise for disrespect in the relationship....and that goes both ways.

There are times when a swear word just sounds good or funny, or impactive, and by all means should be used. But steady cussing as a habit sounds bad. It reflects poorly on a man and risks lowering his intellect from the perspective of the listner. You don't want anyone to think that you're a fvcked up fvcking fvcker because you're too fvcking senseless to realize that you're articulating like a d*ckfaced c0cksucking muther fvcking fvck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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