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swearing/cursing in front of women, thoughts?

solo1

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What are your thoughts on swearing in front of your gf/date...in such situations:

1) conversation about stuff and you're using 'fvck' 'sh!t' in your sentences.
2) you're pissed off and swearing your ass off, either to her or someone else.

Personally i try to avoid it in front of a date/girl if i can, but ill swear my ass off if easy if with friends.
yea it shows you're comfortable in your own skin, but you want to keep some kind of class in her eyes, no?

What are your general rules on/(when) swearing in front of them? Is this a turn off to certain ones?
 

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zerocelcius

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I personally don't like to cuss in front of girls or in general. However; after the army it is hard for me not to do.

Overall I feel like cussing sounds a little ignorant.

:cuss:
 

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I think that men should minimize the use of foul words infront of women...not just for her, but because it shows some class and dignity in him.

Swearing when p*ssed off is especially bad, particularly when its directed at her. You're setting the premise for disrespect in the relationship....and that goes both ways.

There are times when a swear word just sounds good or funny, or impactive, and by all means should be used. But steady cussing as a habit sounds bad. It reflects poorly on a man and risks lowering his intellect from the perspective of the listner. You don't want anyone to think that you're a fvcked up fvcking fvcker because you're too fvcking senseless to realize that you're articulating like a d*ckfaced c0cksucking muther fvcking fvck.
 

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