Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why, in a forum basically dedicated to having sex with women, is there a profanity filter? Don't you think that anyone who's trying to get a nut off is going to be fairly comfortable with swearing and dirty words? It breaks up the flow and reduces the impact of what you say when you have to spell words strangely or everything is ***** out. For ****'s sake, you can even say b1tch on tv, but not here.

Just wondering if there was a particular reason for this? Sites like Facebook and Nexopia etc don't even have these filters.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't curse or even raise my voice with my GF. She can swear like a sailor when she's pissed tho.
 
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This forum isn't all about getting laid.

Plus, you can get your point across without swearing.

Facebook and them aren't forums. They're like MySpace...
 
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this has been discussed many times before... use the search function.
 
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DJDamage

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Throttle said:
this has been discussed many times before... use the search function.
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I personally want to know what the F.U.C.K is this 17 year old going to do about it. I love it how everyone always try to come of with some clever thread to F.U.C.K.I.N.G change things around here by being a S.H.I.T disturber.

S.H.I.T this might start a F.U.C.K.I.N.G flame war.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haha I'm not flaming anyone, and please leave age out of this. Just because you're older doesn't make you any smarter, there's a hell of a lot of old stupid people. I really don't see how this thread is "disturbing s.h.i.t", it's a simple question, coincidentally one that no one has answered so far in this thread.

I did use the search function, but the terms "swear" and "curse" came up with nothing relevant. Maybe I'll try again.
 
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gmiller...did you read the FAQ? Because that entire issue is addressed there...
 
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EdHunter said:
gmiller...did you read the FAQ? Because that entire issue is addressed there...
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Not really, but whatever. It's obvious that I'm not going to get a real answer, at least not one that I'll agree with.
 
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