"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gmillar

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Why, in a forum basically dedicated to having sex with women, is there a profanity filter? Don't you think that anyone who's trying to get a nut off is going to be fairly comfortable with swearing and dirty words? It breaks up the flow and reduces the impact of what you say when you have to spell words strangely or everything is ***** out. For ****'s sake, you can even say b1tch on tv, but not here.

Just wondering if there was a particular reason for this? Sites like Facebook and Nexopia etc don't even have these filters.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phazuka

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I don't curse or even raise my voice with my GF. She can swear like a sailor when she's pissed tho.
 

Skilla_Staz

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This forum isn't all about getting laid.

Plus, you can get your point across without swearing.

Facebook and them aren't forums. They're like MySpace...
 

Throttle

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this has been discussed many times before... use the search function.
 

DJDamage

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Throttle said:
this has been discussed many times before... use the search function.
I personally want to know what the F.U.C.K is this 17 year old going to do about it. I love it how everyone always try to come of with some clever thread to F.U.C.K.I.N.G change things around here by being a S.H.I.T disturber.

S.H.I.T this might start a F.U.C.K.I.N.G flame war.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gmillar

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Haha I'm not flaming anyone, and please leave age out of this. Just because you're older doesn't make you any smarter, there's a hell of a lot of old stupid people. I really don't see how this thread is "disturbing s.h.i.t", it's a simple question, coincidentally one that no one has answered so far in this thread.

I did use the search function, but the terms "swear" and "curse" came up with nothing relevant. Maybe I'll try again.
 

EdHunter

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gmiller...did you read the FAQ? Because that entire issue is addressed there...
 

gmillar

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EdHunter said:
gmiller...did you read the FAQ? Because that entire issue is addressed there...
Not really, but whatever. It's obvious that I'm not going to get a real answer, at least not one that I'll agree with.
 
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