"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Had a date not really confirmed but tenitive I call one hour prior ..no answer so I say screw it

one and a half hours later she calls saying she just woke up , I tell her so sorry I'm on my way outa town and wont be back for a couple weeks ..she moans and asks can we get together then ...I say OK not sure when I can call but I will call and set something up.

My question is this ......

is it best to call her on the flake or just smile like it didnt happen ?

could I have handled it better ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ya, you shouldn't have said anything.

you should have said "ill think about it. right now ive got to let you go but give me a call when im back in town"


she said sorry and you instantly forgave her. she sh*t tested you and you just showed her that you'll put up with being stood up as long as she says "sorry".

no need to get angry at this. all you had to do was respond with ambiguity and tell her to check back with you later.

let her know that you AREN'T desperate for her attention and that she's the one that lost out. you gotta remember, YOU ARE THE PRIZE.

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Thanks for the reply ...I was thinking the same thing ...I felt she was sincere so I shouldve, but did not play the hard azz....
I whimped out and acted like a " nice guy "

Take notice fellas dont do what I did
 
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