Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Disagree. The endorphin rush and testosterone boost alone would be sufficient to make lifting worthwhile.You should change the question to "Do you actually get results?"
Lifting is meaningless without results to show for it. Far too many people think they are "lifting" but have nothing to show for it.
If you feel the need to wear a tanktop so people "see" that you lift, you aren't getting enough results. It should be obvious even in a winter coat.
All you are doing is stunting your ability to grow by lifting heavy every day, and I'd also say by lifting this much although opinions vary. I rarely lift more than 3 days a week but when I do it's balls to the wall intense. There is no possible way you can maintain that type of intensity lifting 6 days a week and lifting heavy every day. Although our definition of heavy is probably a lot differrent I'll assume. You've been reading too many books/listening to people on steroids who can handle that type of program. 95% of people not on steroids will be simply hurting their long term growth by following something like that. Rest is when you grow, not by constantly pushing your body. That simply results in a state of constant stress after a while which the body shows by altering hormone levels in favor of cortisol, which is not a good thing.I try and lift 5 times a week. 6 times if I do legs twice in the week. Standard split. Back, chest, legs, arms, shoulders. I lift heavy everyday.
Nope. I can only tell you what worked for my body. I made some serious gains when I was lifting heavy 5 days a week consistently AND playing rugby on top of that. This was back in university though (21 years old) where I slept like a king and ate like a horse.All you are doing is stunting your ability to grow by lifting heavy every day, and I'd also say by lifting this much although opinions vary. I rarely lift more than 3 days a week but when I do it's balls to the wall intense. There is no possible way you can maintain that type of intensity lifting 6 days a week and lifting heavy every day. Although our definition of heavy is probably a lot differrent I'll assume. You've been reading too many books/listening to people on steroids who can handle that type of program. 95% of people not on steroids will be simply hurting their long term growth by following something like that. Rest is when you grow, not by constantly pushing your body. That simply results in a state of constant stress after a while which the body shows by altering hormone levels in favor of cortisol, which is not a good thing.
In the end intensity is what gives you results, not time or days spent at the gym. Most people don't want to deal with that kind of pain on a daily basis because it will last 3 or 4 days sometimes...hell I've had times where it lasted a week.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.