"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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fezz

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So guys, have you ever had a girl go AFC on you??? It's kinda rare, but I'm sure it's happened to a bunch of you. Tell me your story, because I'm sure some of them are interesting.

Here's mine.
I dont know if you all have read any of my posts, but I made out with this girl and she gave me her phone number. I wasn't planning on calling her, but then she tracked me down. She got my number, screen name, my address, and even where I worked. It was pitiful. One day she called me 8 times!! She would im me and tell me how much she missed our weekend together. It was gettin on my nerves and really turnin me off, so I told her off and I told her to never call me again and I told her last of all that she makes my penis very very soft.
It was hilarious.

So guys, got any stories of AFC girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vigilante7

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When i was 14, my friend hooked me up with a HB6 (unfortunatley becamne my GF.) and i was an AFC and talked to her everyday for a while, but she sent me 34 emails in 4 days (NO LIE!!!) - like 4-5 lines each email and called me 4 times a day ......i ended it after a month on mSN AHAHAHAHAHA
 

buckwheat18

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I had a gf when i was a freshmen and an AFC, she would talk to me on the phone for an hour and I would listen that's sad. she was a 5.4, no wonder. I'm glad I have those memorys to look back and laugh on.
 
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yep, this one girl used to call me every day. And she was the type that could talk for hours, so whenever she called I said hello, talked for five minutes and the put the phone down, did some homework, watched some tv, played a little playstation, stuff like that. The funny thing is that she knew what I was doing, but didnt want to say anything, one day it seems she had enough, and seems like she had given me a "harsh" lecture on how to treat a girl, over the phone......To bad I missed it:p

She doesnt call me anymore:D
 

Porky

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haha...Ares, that's the best story ever.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Alejandro

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trust me. i DONT wanna remember. :(
 
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