"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Surrogate Sex Partners Rising Among Women

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It might sound like something fun but it actually isn't. I don't think you want to go anywhere near the women that have these sort of issues.

It's kinda like being a male gigolo. It might sounds like a great idea then you realize that your customers are fat or ugly women with money who can't get sex any other way.

It's not the hb - 9s that need these services or else every guy would have signed up already :D
 

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Yes let's see some pics of these women before you go and declare a change in careers....
 

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Sue Madre said:
Yes let's see some pics of these women before you go and declare a change in careers....
It's not just the looks, brah. These chicks are damaged from getting sexually abused when they were younger.(In most cases) My EX was this way, coupled with some insecurities about her body; you could imagine how frequent sex was.
 

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joverby said:
It's not just the looks, brah. These chicks are damaged from getting sexually abused when they were younger.(In most cases) My EX was this way, coupled with some insecurities about her body; you could imagine how frequent sex was.

Don't tell me about that drama. My first girlfriend from highschool that I lost my virginity to told me that her FATHER molested her and that is who she lost her virginity to.

Imagine hearing that on the phone? Not a fun time. That chic was whacked and became a lesbian.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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f283000 said:
It might sound like something fun but it actually isn't. I don't think you want to go anywhere near the women that have these sort of issues.

It's kinda like being a male gigolo. It might sounds like a great idea then you realize that your customers are fat or ugly women with money who can't get sex any other way.

It's not the hb - 9s that need these services or else every guy would have signed up already :D
Exactly what f283000 said.

Quoted from straight from the article:

"In his 14 years as a surrogate partner, Rotem has worked with women who have a condition called vaginismus, which makes sex painful, women in their 40s or 50s who are virgins and women who have experienced sexual trauma.

Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/09/06/use-surrogate-sex-partners-rising-among-women/#ixzz1XKJ4U1Ah"

So you'd either have sex with 40-50 year old virgins (hideous beasts/whales) or have sex with women who can't really enjoy sex.

I wonder though, the article raised the issue that some women had "the right" to orgasms and to feel sexually stimulated....and therefore go to these therapists. Isn't that a bit like prostitution????
 

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Don't tell me about that drama. My first girlfriend from highschool that I lost my virginity to told me that her FATHER molested her and that is who she lost her virginity to.

Imagine hearing that on the phone? Not a fun time. That chic was whacked and became a lesbian.
Ya, I found out through text after she refused to tell me on the phone. It was her "brothers friend" which I think really meant her brother. But who knows. Funny my EX was also Bi and I think had a lesbo escapade in highschool.
 

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"In his 14 years as a surrogate partner, Rotem has worked with women who have a condition called vaginismus, which makes sex painful, women in their 40s or 50s who are virgins and women who have experienced sexual trauma."


I dated a chic like that. She was a track star at my college. She gave the best head ever but she was crazy as hell. She ended up going in the army and becoming a lesbian.
 
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