"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surreptiously asking out a co-worker

crgideon

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What is a good way to go about this?

Is it lame to just randomly Facebook friend request or message her out of the blue?

I absolutely cannot be caught flirting due to the fact she has a baby daddy who may or may not still work for us and she may or may not still be with.

She smiles and giggles everytime we pass and she is attractive enough to be worth the risk, in my opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Starwolf

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Dude..

Walk Away!
 

MOTU

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^^^this. Don't sh!t where you eat. There are plenty of other hot b!tches out there who work somewhere else....
 
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