"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Surreptiously asking out a co-worker

crgideon

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2014
Messages
32
Reaction score
5
What is a good way to go about this?

Is it lame to just randomly Facebook friend request or message her out of the blue?

I absolutely cannot be caught flirting due to the fact she has a baby daddy who may or may not still work for us and she may or may not still be with.

She smiles and giggles everytime we pass and she is attractive enough to be worth the risk, in my opinion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Starwolf

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2014
Messages
240
Reaction score
14
Dude..

Walk Away!
 

MOTU

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
638
Reaction score
72
Location
Houston, TX
^^^this. Don't sh!t where you eat. There are plenty of other hot b!tches out there who work somewhere else....
 
Top