"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Surreptiously asking out a co-worker

crgideon

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What is a good way to go about this?

Is it lame to just randomly Facebook friend request or message her out of the blue?

I absolutely cannot be caught flirting due to the fact she has a baby daddy who may or may not still work for us and she may or may not still be with.

She smiles and giggles everytime we pass and she is attractive enough to be worth the risk, in my opinion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starwolf

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Dude..

Walk Away!
 

MOTU

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^^^this. Don't sh!t where you eat. There are plenty of other hot b!tches out there who work somewhere else....
 
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