"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cod3r

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Well today I acted on something that was very subtle, but I said fvck it and went after it...

Was in another University's computer lab and catch an odd 2 second flash of a smile from an HB9MiddleEastern, in my head I figured she was just being polite or something or maybe I didn't really see it and then I moved seats to behind her and she turned around and caught eyes for a tenth of a second and I decided fvck it...

ME: I don't mean to be forward, but did you smile at me a few minutes ago ?
HER: *giggling* I don't think so
ME: Oh ok then *turned back around*
HER: Why ?
ME: *phone rings* Sorry, I gotta take this...

*Paused during the conversation with my girlfriend lol*

ME: I've gotta run, I'd like to speak to you again... call ___ <-- insert my #
HER: *nervous smile* Ok, bye
ME: Later

As I am walking out, she dials me up and when I pick up no one is on the line. I figure she was just giving me her number, so that's that. She was hella attractive and might serve as a nice pivot, I'll give it a call and LJBF if it goes anywhere, I need a new female friend to kick it with and she'd do jusss fine !


-Cod3r
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kickureface

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yeah, when you just go up to do something with some confidence everything happens in place. no fake stufff bs comes out either
 
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