"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Surprisingly Did it Right...

Cod3r

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Well today I acted on something that was very subtle, but I said fvck it and went after it...

Was in another University's computer lab and catch an odd 2 second flash of a smile from an HB9MiddleEastern, in my head I figured she was just being polite or something or maybe I didn't really see it and then I moved seats to behind her and she turned around and caught eyes for a tenth of a second and I decided fvck it...

ME: I don't mean to be forward, but did you smile at me a few minutes ago ?
HER: *giggling* I don't think so
ME: Oh ok then *turned back around*
HER: Why ?
ME: *phone rings* Sorry, I gotta take this...

*Paused during the conversation with my girlfriend lol*

ME: I've gotta run, I'd like to speak to you again... call ___ <-- insert my #
HER: *nervous smile* Ok, bye
ME: Later

As I am walking out, she dials me up and when I pick up no one is on the line. I figure she was just giving me her number, so that's that. She was hella attractive and might serve as a nice pivot, I'll give it a call and LJBF if it goes anywhere, I need a new female friend to kick it with and she'd do jusss fine !


-Cod3r
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kickureface

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yeah, when you just go up to do something with some confidence everything happens in place. no fake stufff bs comes out either
 
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