"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Surprisingly Did it Right...

Cod3r

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Well today I acted on something that was very subtle, but I said fvck it and went after it...

Was in another University's computer lab and catch an odd 2 second flash of a smile from an HB9MiddleEastern, in my head I figured she was just being polite or something or maybe I didn't really see it and then I moved seats to behind her and she turned around and caught eyes for a tenth of a second and I decided fvck it...

ME: I don't mean to be forward, but did you smile at me a few minutes ago ?
HER: *giggling* I don't think so
ME: Oh ok then *turned back around*
HER: Why ?
ME: *phone rings* Sorry, I gotta take this...

*Paused during the conversation with my girlfriend lol*

ME: I've gotta run, I'd like to speak to you again... call ___ <-- insert my #
HER: *nervous smile* Ok, bye
ME: Later

As I am walking out, she dials me up and when I pick up no one is on the line. I figure she was just giving me her number, so that's that. She was hella attractive and might serve as a nice pivot, I'll give it a call and LJBF if it goes anywhere, I need a new female friend to kick it with and she'd do jusss fine !


-Cod3r
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kickureface

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yeah, when you just go up to do something with some confidence everything happens in place. no fake stufff bs comes out either
 
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