"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Surprised at myself...

disfunktional

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Hey,

I find myself for the first time ever "spinning plates". I have 2 girls on the go and they don't know about each other. I've not lied but I haven't specifically told them about the other. They both know that I am not up for anything serious and it's just casual, I've not given them the impression otherwise.

So Saturday night I stay at one girls place, Sunday morning we have sex. Sunday night I stay at the other girls, we fool around but she's not comfortable having sex (on her period). If she wasn't on her period we would have had sex for sure. This is the first time I've ever done something like this, 2 girls in 1 day, even seeing 2 girls concurrently. And guess what, I felt no guilt whatsoever, I thought I would but I don't. I really don't care a great deal about either of them, I'm just trying to get laid. And these are not random girls, they are friends of friends. I'm surprised at myself....

No real point to this post I guess, just felt like I needed to jot it down. P.S just so you know it's not an ego stroke, I suck in bed at the moment, I've barely been able to get it up around these girls :crazy:

df
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squirrels

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Great feeling, isn't it? Go for 3. Once you have a different girl for Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday night, you'll be set. Any more than that is a hassle to maintain. (though you can throw in as many one-nighters as you can stand :D )
 
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