"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Surprised at myself...

disfunktional

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Hey,

I find myself for the first time ever "spinning plates". I have 2 girls on the go and they don't know about each other. I've not lied but I haven't specifically told them about the other. They both know that I am not up for anything serious and it's just casual, I've not given them the impression otherwise.

So Saturday night I stay at one girls place, Sunday morning we have sex. Sunday night I stay at the other girls, we fool around but she's not comfortable having sex (on her period). If she wasn't on her period we would have had sex for sure. This is the first time I've ever done something like this, 2 girls in 1 day, even seeing 2 girls concurrently. And guess what, I felt no guilt whatsoever, I thought I would but I don't. I really don't care a great deal about either of them, I'm just trying to get laid. And these are not random girls, they are friends of friends. I'm surprised at myself....

No real point to this post I guess, just felt like I needed to jot it down. P.S just so you know it's not an ego stroke, I suck in bed at the moment, I've barely been able to get it up around these girls :crazy:

df
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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squirrels

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Great feeling, isn't it? Go for 3. Once you have a different girl for Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday night, you'll be set. Any more than that is a hassle to maintain. (though you can throw in as many one-nighters as you can stand :D )
 
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