"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surgeons Hate Weightlifting

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And I hate surgeons, so we are even.:box: Weight lifting is the only thing that fixed my bad back and frozen shoulders. No amount of pilates can do it anymore. Learn to lift correctly and problems are less likely to develop.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One of the reasons why soccer players have a hard time taking bumps and knocks is because it is VERY hard to stay balanced while using your strong foot to dribble the ball at the same time. As a soccer player, I rarely get knocked over playing defense. But when I have the ball it's a completely different story. Dribbling technique itself takes away your strong foot so it is rarely planted correctly. Add that I play on the wing and am often running at full sprint while trying to dribble... an easily timed tackle or bump will definitely send me off course or to the ground. That's why you see guys like Ronaldo flying everywhere. When he dribbles, his technique, which makes him a brilliant player nevertheless, forces him to take so many touches on the ball. He usually has a straight posture too, making his center of gravity that much higher and easy to knock over. People in other sports don't have to lend their feet to do anything other than move, so it's free to stabilize them more. People don't really point this out when they see soccer guys fall but it seems like it should be common sense.
 
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