"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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chalk

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I just took up surfing for a laugh and let me tell you something. I thought i was quite fit, i play squash, go to the gym now and then (not as much i should though) This sport serioulsy F*CKS me up! Seriously, I find it hard to paddle out past the waves sometimes and if it's rough my shoulder muscles are buggered and im panting before i even catch a wave..... try this 4 or 5 times and i come out of the water totally exhausted, stumbling around from being bashed by water and feeling sick from the pain. It's brilliant. When I come out, even though im pretty mashed, I feel ENERGETIC and ALIVE. I can feel it's doing my head good already.

I'd recommend it to anyone!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jakethasnake

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Wow, that sounds fantastic! Where do you live? I'll be in SoCal this summer, and surfing definately sounds like a good option! :)
 

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Originally posted by chalk
IWhen I come out, even though im pretty mashed, I feel ENERGETIC and ALIVE. I can feel it's doing my head good already.

I'd recommend it to anyone!
Sounds like fun, I'll have to try surfing one of these days.
 
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chalk

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I live on Guernsey which is an island in the English channel, the surfs not always amazing here but for a beginner it's definatley enough to give you a hammering!! If you can't surf then go snowboarding, it's my 100% favourite thing in the world and if i could just wonder up to the mountain from my house i'd be doing it every day. The feeling of being up in the mountains, the views, the atmosphere, the powder snow..... absolutly unbeatable!

Chalk
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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