Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sure ways she is has massive High IL

frivolousz21

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if u are dating her for a while..

if she loves you..or has high IL..she will basically do anything for you.

she will talk to you whenever you want

she will see u whenever and as much as you want..pending she is free

she will let you touch her whenever, wherever on her you want(pending no one is watching)

she will have sex with you whenever and pretty much wherever u want

she wants to show you off to her friends

she puts u in her aim profile or other online things as in words or pictures

she sacrafices sleep to see you

she will drive to see you

she will SPEND MONEY ON YOU
(grantide your cheap ass should fend for yourself) but sometimes make her pay to see how she reacts

im sure there is more..but thats the basics of her high high IL
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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god damn man! Im happy for you and all but seriously quit it with the posts about your girlfriend. Nearly every post is something hinting about your relationship.

Just be careful coz you going to get hurt bad if things go sour. Half of the people here, actually 25 percent are probably in relationships but dont go on about it, nearly every day on a messageboard.

Everything is cool for you now but take it from me, things can change very quickly in a relationship.
 

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Re: Re: sure ways she is has massive High IL

Originally posted by mrRuckus
she sacrifices a goat in your name
Hahahaha.

Whats that saying.....

"when your in love you want to shout it from roof tops"

I mean look at Tom Cruise on Oprah that guy was goign crazy. Not that i belive in Love. Anyway he's right control your self man.
Ninja out
 

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Re: Re: Re: sure ways she is has massive High IL

Originally posted by Black_Italian

I mean look at Tom Cruise on Oprah that guy was goign crazy. Not that i belive in Love. Anyway he's right control your self man.

Tom Cruise IS crazy.

All that scientology nonsense... and the other day he said that he was Shakespeare in another life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everything is cool for you now but take it from me, things can change very quickly in a relationship.
I have more expierence than 99 percent of the people here.


i know that :)

risk and reward.

if everyone here would listen to me..thy woudlnt be coming back for answers..when they fail time and time again. not directed at you
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if u are dating her for a while..

if she loves you..or has high IL..she will basically do anything for you.

she will talk to you whenever you want

she will see u whenever and as much as you want..pending she is free

she will let you touch her whenever, wherever on her you want(pending no one is watching)

she will have sex with you whenever and pretty much wherever u want

she wants to show you off to her friends

she puts u in her aim profile or other online things as in words or pictures

she sacrafices sleep to see you

she will drive to see you

she will SPEND MONEY ON YOU
(grantide your cheap ass should fend for yourself) but sometimes make her pay to see how she reacts

im sure there is more..but thats the basics of her high high IL
See what annoys me is.... we (men) are not supposed to ever do any of these things as they are 'AFC' and our a$$es would get dumped in no time at all.

:down:

It is frustrating when women are allowed to be pathetic as they want in a relationship (ie 'sacrifices sleep to see you', 'will talk whenever you want', 'will basically do anything for you' etc) and our response is 'aaah... she's in love'.
Whereas if WE were to do those things?? Their response would most likely be 'what a LO-SER' before mercilessly booting us to the curb and joking to their friends about our pathetic behaviour.

Annoying.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if u are dating her for a while..

if she loves you..or has high IL..she will basically do anything for you.

she will talk to you whenever you want

she will see u whenever and as much as you want..pending she is free

she will let you touch her whenever, wherever on her you want(pending no one is watching)

she will have sex with you whenever and pretty much wherever u want

she wants to show you off to her friends

she puts u in her aim profile or other online things as in words or pictures

she sacrafices sleep to see you

she will drive to see you

she will SPEND MONEY ON YOU
(grantide your cheap ass should fend for yourself) but sometimes make her pay to see how she reacts

im sure there is more..but thats the basics of her high high IL


These are all great signs that she's diggin you- let me just add one thing to the mix---the EYES-they never lie-if there's nothin else that will let you know..its the eyes..
 

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She seems committed to you, but because you post weekly updates to your stupid whiny love life, I doubt it is true love.
 

frivolousz21

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She seems committed to you, but because you post weekly updates to your stupid whiny love life, I doubt it is true love.
I post updates so the guys who come here dont get skewed by the people who tell them love doenst exist...



Its also funny that all these guys tell me to watch my heart...they all have 1 thing in commen..they have been ****ed over by women. I wonder what they would say if they were the ones breaking the hearts of the women who loved them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I post updates so the guys who come here dont get skewed by the people who tell them love doenst exist...



Its also funny that all these guys tell me to watch my heart...they all have 1 thing in commen..they have been ****ed over by women. I wonder what they would say if they were the ones breaking the hearts of the women who loved them?
Well no sh*t, enjoy whatever you have in your life, there's no reason to gloat or brag.
 
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