"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sure ways she is has massive High IL

frivolousz21

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if u are dating her for a while..

if she loves you..or has high IL..she will basically do anything for you.

she will talk to you whenever you want

she will see u whenever and as much as you want..pending she is free

she will let you touch her whenever, wherever on her you want(pending no one is watching)

she will have sex with you whenever and pretty much wherever u want

she wants to show you off to her friends

she puts u in her aim profile or other online things as in words or pictures

she sacrafices sleep to see you

she will drive to see you

she will SPEND MONEY ON YOU
(grantide your cheap ass should fend for yourself) but sometimes make her pay to see how she reacts

im sure there is more..but thats the basics of her high high IL
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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god damn man! Im happy for you and all but seriously quit it with the posts about your girlfriend. Nearly every post is something hinting about your relationship.

Just be careful coz you going to get hurt bad if things go sour. Half of the people here, actually 25 percent are probably in relationships but dont go on about it, nearly every day on a messageboard.

Everything is cool for you now but take it from me, things can change very quickly in a relationship.
 

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Re: Re: sure ways she is has massive High IL

Originally posted by mrRuckus
she sacrifices a goat in your name
Hahahaha.

Whats that saying.....

"when your in love you want to shout it from roof tops"

I mean look at Tom Cruise on Oprah that guy was goign crazy. Not that i belive in Love. Anyway he's right control your self man.
Ninja out
 

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Re: Re: Re: sure ways she is has massive High IL

Originally posted by Black_Italian

I mean look at Tom Cruise on Oprah that guy was goign crazy. Not that i belive in Love. Anyway he's right control your self man.

Tom Cruise IS crazy.

All that scientology nonsense... and the other day he said that he was Shakespeare in another life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everything is cool for you now but take it from me, things can change very quickly in a relationship.
I have more expierence than 99 percent of the people here.


i know that :)

risk and reward.

if everyone here would listen to me..thy woudlnt be coming back for answers..when they fail time and time again. not directed at you
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if u are dating her for a while..

if she loves you..or has high IL..she will basically do anything for you.

she will talk to you whenever you want

she will see u whenever and as much as you want..pending she is free

she will let you touch her whenever, wherever on her you want(pending no one is watching)

she will have sex with you whenever and pretty much wherever u want

she wants to show you off to her friends

she puts u in her aim profile or other online things as in words or pictures

she sacrafices sleep to see you

she will drive to see you

she will SPEND MONEY ON YOU
(grantide your cheap ass should fend for yourself) but sometimes make her pay to see how she reacts

im sure there is more..but thats the basics of her high high IL
See what annoys me is.... we (men) are not supposed to ever do any of these things as they are 'AFC' and our a$$es would get dumped in no time at all.

:down:

It is frustrating when women are allowed to be pathetic as they want in a relationship (ie 'sacrifices sleep to see you', 'will talk whenever you want', 'will basically do anything for you' etc) and our response is 'aaah... she's in love'.
Whereas if WE were to do those things?? Their response would most likely be 'what a LO-SER' before mercilessly booting us to the curb and joking to their friends about our pathetic behaviour.

Annoying.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
if u are dating her for a while..

if she loves you..or has high IL..she will basically do anything for you.

she will talk to you whenever you want

she will see u whenever and as much as you want..pending she is free

she will let you touch her whenever, wherever on her you want(pending no one is watching)

she will have sex with you whenever and pretty much wherever u want

she wants to show you off to her friends

she puts u in her aim profile or other online things as in words or pictures

she sacrafices sleep to see you

she will drive to see you

she will SPEND MONEY ON YOU
(grantide your cheap ass should fend for yourself) but sometimes make her pay to see how she reacts

im sure there is more..but thats the basics of her high high IL


These are all great signs that she's diggin you- let me just add one thing to the mix---the EYES-they never lie-if there's nothin else that will let you know..its the eyes..
 

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She seems committed to you, but because you post weekly updates to your stupid whiny love life, I doubt it is true love.
 

frivolousz21

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She seems committed to you, but because you post weekly updates to your stupid whiny love life, I doubt it is true love.
I post updates so the guys who come here dont get skewed by the people who tell them love doenst exist...



Its also funny that all these guys tell me to watch my heart...they all have 1 thing in commen..they have been ****ed over by women. I wonder what they would say if they were the ones breaking the hearts of the women who loved them?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I post updates so the guys who come here dont get skewed by the people who tell them love doenst exist...



Its also funny that all these guys tell me to watch my heart...they all have 1 thing in commen..they have been ****ed over by women. I wonder what they would say if they were the ones breaking the hearts of the women who loved them?
Well no sh*t, enjoy whatever you have in your life, there's no reason to gloat or brag.
 
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