tryin 2 play
Senior Don Juan
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So I go to a party with my boy and this chick is there who I had met months ago at a bar with friends. She had a boyfriend at the time, I didn't talk to her much. When my buddy introduced us she says "I met you a long time ago at x club, remember", i say yes, but was surprised she did because she must meet a ton of guys. She then says I saw you at school the other day. I ask "why didn't you say hi?" She replies "didn't think you would remember me, didnt want to seem weird".
Now I'm getting interested vibes the whole night from her. She asks if im comming snowboarding with them when they all go. She tells me i should go to a bar she is going to the next day. We make a friendly bet about racing in snowboarding and she says the loser takes the winner out to a nice lunch. We talk back and forth throughout the night, but im not all over her, make her laugh and bust on her a bit. I was kind of aloof because my extremely AFC friend followed her round ALL night, and i didn't want to be associated with that. I'm sitting on a big chair and she sits next to me, pressed up against me. Her friends try to get her to dance but she desperately says no and falls back into me. I get her number and as i see its getting late(5am), i say i should leave. She says she will leave too. Gives me a hug and walks away, but looks back for some strong eye contact for a few seconds. This happened sat. night.
Call her on tue, doesnt pick up so i text to say it was me who called. Texts me back and says she was in the gym, whatsup? I dont like this because i wanted to speak to her, build more rapport, but whatever. I tell her lets get together Thur (as that was my only free day). She says she is working the night shift but is off wed. I say well maybe we can get together wed when im done with my stuff...she says she will let me know cause she got invited to a bball game. Kind of annoyed since i dont like the whole "ill elt you know sh!t girls pull, so i say "hey if you jsut dont want to you can say no, this isnt a big deal" (my mistake maybe?) She says its not that at all i just got invited to the game.
Wed i text her asking whatsup. She replies simply going to the game tonight and i say "awesome have fun!" She replies right after askin what im doing tonight. Well OBV i dont have plans since i was JUST trying to make them with YOU! I lie and say goin to party, her n friends can come after game if they want. Says she will let me know what shes doin after the game. I never hear from her.
What happened here? She seemed interested at the party. Initiating convo, laughing at dumb jokes, being in proximity to me, very light kino between the two of us. I honestly thought it was a SURE thing to go out with her, and i have plenty of experience so i usually know.
Should i try again? Usually if iget rejected i stop trying, i dont want to be THAT guy. But i know so many guys who have gotten the girls by keep trying. She was legitimately busy which is fine, but hte fact she never got back to me with her plans made me think she wasnt interested. Should i try again one more time for next week???
Now I'm getting interested vibes the whole night from her. She asks if im comming snowboarding with them when they all go. She tells me i should go to a bar she is going to the next day. We make a friendly bet about racing in snowboarding and she says the loser takes the winner out to a nice lunch. We talk back and forth throughout the night, but im not all over her, make her laugh and bust on her a bit. I was kind of aloof because my extremely AFC friend followed her round ALL night, and i didn't want to be associated with that. I'm sitting on a big chair and she sits next to me, pressed up against me. Her friends try to get her to dance but she desperately says no and falls back into me. I get her number and as i see its getting late(5am), i say i should leave. She says she will leave too. Gives me a hug and walks away, but looks back for some strong eye contact for a few seconds. This happened sat. night.
Call her on tue, doesnt pick up so i text to say it was me who called. Texts me back and says she was in the gym, whatsup? I dont like this because i wanted to speak to her, build more rapport, but whatever. I tell her lets get together Thur (as that was my only free day). She says she is working the night shift but is off wed. I say well maybe we can get together wed when im done with my stuff...she says she will let me know cause she got invited to a bball game. Kind of annoyed since i dont like the whole "ill elt you know sh!t girls pull, so i say "hey if you jsut dont want to you can say no, this isnt a big deal" (my mistake maybe?) She says its not that at all i just got invited to the game.
Wed i text her asking whatsup. She replies simply going to the game tonight and i say "awesome have fun!" She replies right after askin what im doing tonight. Well OBV i dont have plans since i was JUST trying to make them with YOU! I lie and say goin to party, her n friends can come after game if they want. Says she will let me know what shes doin after the game. I never hear from her.
What happened here? She seemed interested at the party. Initiating convo, laughing at dumb jokes, being in proximity to me, very light kino between the two of us. I honestly thought it was a SURE thing to go out with her, and i have plenty of experience so i usually know.
Should i try again? Usually if iget rejected i stop trying, i dont want to be THAT guy. But i know so many guys who have gotten the girls by keep trying. She was legitimately busy which is fine, but hte fact she never got back to me with her plans made me think she wasnt interested. Should i try again one more time for next week???