"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Supposed to go out with 15 people tonight, mostly girls

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friends of friends of friends. We're going to downtown Chicago


and I somehow caught the cold on Thursday. I felt like sh*t in the morning. Feel a little better now.


Thinking about going to the sauna at the gym to clear up the sinus, taking some anti sickness meds and going out big. You guys know any other ways to recover quickly from a cold?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An antihistamine will help during the event. If you get drowsy easily use something like Dayquil. Though there's disagreement over the effectiveness of vitamins on a cold, an off cited study states vitamin C reduces the severity and length of a cold. Zycam works well because it's loaded with zinc and vitamin C
 

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Alkaseltzer plus (cold edition) has always worked the best for me. It's the only thing i can find that promises to cure both runny and stuffy nose
 
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An antihistamine will help during the event. If you get drowsy easily use something like Dayquil. Though there's disagreement over the effectiveness of vitamins on a cold, an off cited study states vitamin C reduces the severity and length of a cold. Zycam works well because it's loaded with zinc and vitamin C
zinc and vitamin C work EXTREMELY well to stop a cold right in its tracks im not promoting medicine here boys it actually does work.....

diff body chemistry could mean different results though. works for me. then again CBD also works wonders for my headaches and i know some people get headaches from weed :shrug:
 

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A cold..... really?
Colds are nasty. I wouldn't want to be snogging on some chick with mucus running out of wherever it's running out of.
I just got over a cold, hadn't been sick in about two years. Usually it migrates from my throat to my nose, to my sinuses, back down to my throat, and then maybe into my lungs. Usually takes me a week to kick it, no matter what vitamins or medications I take.

To the OP: I thought you had mainly guy friends, how is it suddenly you're hanging out with a bunch of girls?
Are none of these girls dateable? Do none of these girls have hot friends? Can none of these girls act as a wingwoman for you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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friends of friends of friends. We're going to downtown Chicago


and I somehow caught the cold on Thursday. I felt like sh*t in the morning. Feel a little better now.


Thinking about going to the sauna at the gym to clear up the sinus, taking some anti sickness meds and going out big. You guys know any other ways to recover quickly from a cold?
Take 2000mg Vitamin C. That will clear you right up.
 

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Of course, but there is no cure for the common cold. If he's really that nasty, there is nothing he can do to turn things around within a few hours to such an extent that he's going to be charming up the ladies on a night out.

If he's considering it, he isn't that sick IMO.
Its a loser's limp. Not that I believe the initial story anyways about the 15 women.

But if true, he would be better off going out with one at a time. That way his pickiness and excuse making doesnt destroy 15 chances at once. He can at least do it slowly, over time, with all 15 lol.
 
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