"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Supposed to go out with 15 people tonight, mostly girls

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friends of friends of friends. We're going to downtown Chicago


and I somehow caught the cold on Thursday. I felt like sh*t in the morning. Feel a little better now.


Thinking about going to the sauna at the gym to clear up the sinus, taking some anti sickness meds and going out big. You guys know any other ways to recover quickly from a cold?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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An antihistamine will help during the event. If you get drowsy easily use something like Dayquil. Though there's disagreement over the effectiveness of vitamins on a cold, an off cited study states vitamin C reduces the severity and length of a cold. Zycam works well because it's loaded with zinc and vitamin C
 

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Alkaseltzer plus (cold edition) has always worked the best for me. It's the only thing i can find that promises to cure both runny and stuffy nose
 
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An antihistamine will help during the event. If you get drowsy easily use something like Dayquil. Though there's disagreement over the effectiveness of vitamins on a cold, an off cited study states vitamin C reduces the severity and length of a cold. Zycam works well because it's loaded with zinc and vitamin C
zinc and vitamin C work EXTREMELY well to stop a cold right in its tracks im not promoting medicine here boys it actually does work.....

diff body chemistry could mean different results though. works for me. then again CBD also works wonders for my headaches and i know some people get headaches from weed :shrug:
 

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A cold..... really?
Colds are nasty. I wouldn't want to be snogging on some chick with mucus running out of wherever it's running out of.
I just got over a cold, hadn't been sick in about two years. Usually it migrates from my throat to my nose, to my sinuses, back down to my throat, and then maybe into my lungs. Usually takes me a week to kick it, no matter what vitamins or medications I take.

To the OP: I thought you had mainly guy friends, how is it suddenly you're hanging out with a bunch of girls?
Are none of these girls dateable? Do none of these girls have hot friends? Can none of these girls act as a wingwoman for you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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friends of friends of friends. We're going to downtown Chicago


and I somehow caught the cold on Thursday. I felt like sh*t in the morning. Feel a little better now.


Thinking about going to the sauna at the gym to clear up the sinus, taking some anti sickness meds and going out big. You guys know any other ways to recover quickly from a cold?
Take 2000mg Vitamin C. That will clear you right up.
 

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Of course, but there is no cure for the common cold. If he's really that nasty, there is nothing he can do to turn things around within a few hours to such an extent that he's going to be charming up the ladies on a night out.

If he's considering it, he isn't that sick IMO.
Its a loser's limp. Not that I believe the initial story anyways about the 15 women.

But if true, he would be better off going out with one at a time. That way his pickiness and excuse making doesnt destroy 15 chances at once. He can at least do it slowly, over time, with all 15 lol.
 
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