"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Supply and Demand Factor

bigneil

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I've now migrated from TX back to CA (via NY and FL). I can say with authority that the #1 factor dictating your success rate is the local male/female ratio.

In Austin there are so many beautiful women that they are literally cheated on to the point of being abused - by unemployed men in flip flops. They are so mistreated, I picked up no less than 10 strippers there, most while they were on stage. They still write to me. One is flying to see me this week.

But back in San Francisco, God it's depressing. I'm currently wearing a shirt that says "Will Work for Table Dance". While in Texas 18 year old barmaids who looked like Paulina (Porizkova if you are under 30) would twirl their hair as they talked to me, here in SF, 31 year old barmaids who are under 5 feet tall have an "as if" attitude and I'm lucky to get an offer for another drink.

I had a few exes here from a year ago (too long to wait). One said she didn't love me anymore. A second flaked. The third one said she had to reschedule because of her AUNT. I said "Girls in Austin don't have Aunts!". When she came back a week later, I told her I was concerned she had Auntie issues.

The moral is, if you don't have an abundance of women, MOVE!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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Strippers and barmaids. Really?
 

skinnyguy

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bigneil said:
I've now migrated from TX back to CA (via NY and FL). I can say with authority that the #1 factor dictating your success rate is the local male/female ratio.

In Austin there are so many beautiful women that they are literally cheated on to the point of being abused - by unemployed men in flip flops. They are so mistreated, I picked up no less than 10 strippers there, most while they were on stage. They still write to me. One is flying to see me this week.

But back in San Francisco, God it's depressing. I'm currently wearing a shirt that says "Will Work for Table Dance". While in Texas 18 year old barmaids who looked like Paulina (Porizkova if you are under 30) would twirl their hair as they talked to me, here in SF, 31 year old barmaids who are under 5 feet tall have an "as if" attitude and I'm lucky to get an offer for another drink.

I had a few exes here from a year ago (too long to wait). One said she didn't love me anymore. A second flaked. The third one said she had to reschedule because of her AUNT. I said "Girls in Austin don't have Aunts!". When she came back a week later, I told her I was concerned she had Auntie issues.

The moral is, if you don't have an abundance of women, MOVE!
you my friend understand why I plan to move to Texas. Abundance of beautiful women, much less attitude, and less racist. I could pull very high quality azz in Austin.
 

Roni_88

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skinnyguy said:
you my friend understand why I plan to move to Texas. Abundance of beautiful women, much less attitude, and less racist. I could pull very high quality azz in Austin.

Im new here and Ive followed often this forum for some time before signing up this is not personal but from Ive read from you in other threads skinny, not even in Mars with the defeatist attitude Ive seen from you, you would succeed. A specific place may increase/decrease odds with women but once again just like we see all over SS ..if we, ourselves dont shine or work our ass off on every aspect of our life, it will always be difficult no matter where you go.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VladPatton

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NYC Russian strippers for life, yo! Lol
 

Çharismo

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Hooooooooooooooooooooooooly fackin sh!t!!!!!

3000+ posts and you are hanging around strippers and bar-maids.

Real smooth man....reeaaal smoooooth.:kick:
 

Bokanovsky

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bigneil said:
In Austin there are so many beautiful women that they are literally cheated on to the point of being abused - by unemployed men in flip flops. They are so mistreated, I picked up no less than 10 strippers there, most while they were on stage. They still write to me. One is flying to see me this week.
My heart goes out to all the beautiful mistreated Austin strippers who get cheated on by unemployed guys in flip-flops. It's a travesty, no other way to describe it...

What I don't understand though is why you are so dependent on strip clubs for your game? There are so many other places where you could be picking up women: massage parlours, back alleys, escort service ads in your local tabloid newspaper. You need to expand your horizons when it comes to approaching wh0res.
 

No.Danny

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Bokanovsky said:
My heart goes out to all the beautiful mistreated Austin strippers who get cheated on by unemployed guys in flip-flops. It's a travesty, no other way to describe it...

What I don't understand though is why you are so dependent on strip clubs for your game? There are so many other places where you could be picking up women: massage parlours, back alleys, escort service ads in your local tabloid newspaper. You need to expand your horizons when it comes to approaching wh0res.
Right you tell him!
This guy, what a n00b,
Step up your horizons son. These wh0res need love too
 

Çharismo

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Originally posted by :- Bokanovsky

My heart goes out to all the beautiful mistreated Austin strippers who get cheated on by unemployed guys in flip-flops. It's a travesty, no other way to describe it...

What I don't understand though is why you are so dependent on strip clubs for your game? There are so many other places where you could be picking up women: massage parlours, back alleys, escort service ads in your local tabloid newspaper. You need to expand your horizons when it comes to approaching wh0res.
El-oh-elz - (Lolz for those who don't get it!):trouble:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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