"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Supply and Demand Factor

bigneil

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I've now migrated from TX back to CA (via NY and FL). I can say with authority that the #1 factor dictating your success rate is the local male/female ratio.

In Austin there are so many beautiful women that they are literally cheated on to the point of being abused - by unemployed men in flip flops. They are so mistreated, I picked up no less than 10 strippers there, most while they were on stage. They still write to me. One is flying to see me this week.

But back in San Francisco, God it's depressing. I'm currently wearing a shirt that says "Will Work for Table Dance". While in Texas 18 year old barmaids who looked like Paulina (Porizkova if you are under 30) would twirl their hair as they talked to me, here in SF, 31 year old barmaids who are under 5 feet tall have an "as if" attitude and I'm lucky to get an offer for another drink.

I had a few exes here from a year ago (too long to wait). One said she didn't love me anymore. A second flaked. The third one said she had to reschedule because of her AUNT. I said "Girls in Austin don't have Aunts!". When she came back a week later, I told her I was concerned she had Auntie issues.

The moral is, if you don't have an abundance of women, MOVE!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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Strippers and barmaids. Really?
 

skinnyguy

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bigneil said:
I've now migrated from TX back to CA (via NY and FL). I can say with authority that the #1 factor dictating your success rate is the local male/female ratio.

In Austin there are so many beautiful women that they are literally cheated on to the point of being abused - by unemployed men in flip flops. They are so mistreated, I picked up no less than 10 strippers there, most while they were on stage. They still write to me. One is flying to see me this week.

But back in San Francisco, God it's depressing. I'm currently wearing a shirt that says "Will Work for Table Dance". While in Texas 18 year old barmaids who looked like Paulina (Porizkova if you are under 30) would twirl their hair as they talked to me, here in SF, 31 year old barmaids who are under 5 feet tall have an "as if" attitude and I'm lucky to get an offer for another drink.

I had a few exes here from a year ago (too long to wait). One said she didn't love me anymore. A second flaked. The third one said she had to reschedule because of her AUNT. I said "Girls in Austin don't have Aunts!". When she came back a week later, I told her I was concerned she had Auntie issues.

The moral is, if you don't have an abundance of women, MOVE!
you my friend understand why I plan to move to Texas. Abundance of beautiful women, much less attitude, and less racist. I could pull very high quality azz in Austin.
 

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skinnyguy said:
you my friend understand why I plan to move to Texas. Abundance of beautiful women, much less attitude, and less racist. I could pull very high quality azz in Austin.

Im new here and Ive followed often this forum for some time before signing up this is not personal but from Ive read from you in other threads skinny, not even in Mars with the defeatist attitude Ive seen from you, you would succeed. A specific place may increase/decrease odds with women but once again just like we see all over SS ..if we, ourselves dont shine or work our ass off on every aspect of our life, it will always be difficult no matter where you go.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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NYC Russian strippers for life, yo! Lol
 

Çharismo

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Hooooooooooooooooooooooooly fackin sh!t!!!!!

3000+ posts and you are hanging around strippers and bar-maids.

Real smooth man....reeaaal smoooooth.:kick:
 

Bokanovsky

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bigneil said:
In Austin there are so many beautiful women that they are literally cheated on to the point of being abused - by unemployed men in flip flops. They are so mistreated, I picked up no less than 10 strippers there, most while they were on stage. They still write to me. One is flying to see me this week.
My heart goes out to all the beautiful mistreated Austin strippers who get cheated on by unemployed guys in flip-flops. It's a travesty, no other way to describe it...

What I don't understand though is why you are so dependent on strip clubs for your game? There are so many other places where you could be picking up women: massage parlours, back alleys, escort service ads in your local tabloid newspaper. You need to expand your horizons when it comes to approaching wh0res.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
My heart goes out to all the beautiful mistreated Austin strippers who get cheated on by unemployed guys in flip-flops. It's a travesty, no other way to describe it...

What I don't understand though is why you are so dependent on strip clubs for your game? There are so many other places where you could be picking up women: massage parlours, back alleys, escort service ads in your local tabloid newspaper. You need to expand your horizons when it comes to approaching wh0res.
Right you tell him!
This guy, what a n00b,
Step up your horizons son. These wh0res need love too
 

Çharismo

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Originally posted by :- Bokanovsky

My heart goes out to all the beautiful mistreated Austin strippers who get cheated on by unemployed guys in flip-flops. It's a travesty, no other way to describe it...

What I don't understand though is why you are so dependent on strip clubs for your game? There are so many other places where you could be picking up women: massage parlours, back alleys, escort service ads in your local tabloid newspaper. You need to expand your horizons when it comes to approaching wh0res.
El-oh-elz - (Lolz for those who don't get it!):trouble:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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