Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I hear Megan Fox is cheering the panthers on.Fatal Jay said:My cowboys lost last night. The back up qb was good but he could not handle the clutch. I want to see 49ers and panthers in the superbowl though.
I have to say I like the Colts in that one. Hopefully the 49ers make it an easy win. Wait is Drew Brees still on the Saints?Trixx said:Chiefs over Colts
Chargers over Bengals
49ers over Packers
Saints over Eagles
I don't think the Panthers are there yet, but it is good to see Cam get them into the playoffs for the first time. Two years ago, he was probably the best rookie qb in nfl history (Dan Marino had a great rookie year), and they still sucked as a team.samspade said:Why not Cam Newton...?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Espi said:I'm not that sure they would have advanced in the playoffs, especially with Romo less than 100%.
Dallas needs to get Adrian Peterson.
And a new coach, IMO.
This is something worth watching.Espi said:I picked SF over GB but I'm thinking it'll be close. Won't be surprised a bit to see GB win. IMO Rodgers is much more experienced and poised than Kaepernick.
I think it's time that Brady passes the torch to Luck. It might be something that happens. Like a farewell to the game. You think Brady has any more seasons left?Espi said:NE over Indy
Denver over SD
Seattle over NO
SF over Carolina
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maybe.Peaks&Valleys said:Chargers obviously have a tough one ahead of them, but they've got momentum with them, won their last 4 of the regular season. Sometimes these wild card teams all come together at the end of the season, and just barrel through somehow. Chargers have been favored in years past, only to blow it on a stupid play, or have to just not have luck on their side.
Maybe this is the year for them. :cheer:
Remember when Smith was on the SF team?samspade said:I think SF is the most complete team, but Kaepernick is the "worst" passer of the remaining QBs. Not the worst QB necessarily because he can gallop all over the field. But as a passer he's behind the other guys.
Not sure of my picks yet, may wait til Thurs/Friday. But I can see Indy beating NE. I don't trust the Patriots this year at all.
In the first half, he made them look very average. Carolina is going to get better when they get Cam a decent receiver or two. I think FSU has better receivers than Carolina.Espi said:--SF defense made (S)cam Newton look very average.
I agree I think they have just the slightest edge because they are hosting. Blount needs to be controlled and Manning needs to not choke.Espi said:--Denver dominated despite the close score. Still not 100% convinced they'll get past NE. The ONLY reason I'm picking DEN is because they're hosting.
Anything other than great would be crazy. He's not the best, but he's in the conversation. He's a preparation guy, not a clutch guy. There are places for both of those types. The vitriol towards Manning should go towards his offensive line, who got blown up all night long.Espi said:Not sure how Manning will be regarded.
Yet you say this:Espi said:In my mind he is DEFINITELY not in the same league as Brady anymore.
So does that mean you think Peyton Manning is a 3rd tier QB? Because you obviously think Tom Brady is a 2nd tier at best.Espi said:I've personally never seen Brady as the "torchbearer" for NE. In my opinion, he's just another really good NE Patriot, much like Bradshaw was just another really good Steeler. Brady, in my mind, is an above-average passer who's extremely efficient and resilient but mainly he's been complimented by an array of solid-level offensive lineman, WR's and RB's over the past 10 + years (even though NE hasn't won a Super Bowl in nearly that long).
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The present day Patriots would be 3-13 if not for Brady/Belichek.Fatal Jay said:I give it to Montana Elway and bradshaw
but tom brady would be looking like tony room is it wasn't for his o-line
The score and the game did kind of remind me of the 85 Bears Super Bowl..Bible_Belt said:The last time I remember a blowout like this one, the 85 Bears were doing the Super Bowl Shuffle.
Peyton Manning underperforming in the playoffs has been going on for a long time. I, like most people, like the guy, both his play and personality, but I've made money off his choking for years now.zekko said:I don't really care about all that ranking QBs and such. But I do notice that people tend to over react to whatever is currently going on.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.