"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SuperBowl date tonight? too soon?

knighted1

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Hey fellas....
Quick question:
I had a very good first date on Friday night with a very attractive and cool chick....the night ended with a long kiss, yada yada...
anyways, we texted abck and forth yesterday a couple of times saying how great of a time we both had....and left it at that. I was thinking of inviting her over tonight to watch the big game on my big screen....
is it too soon or not?
(rizzo email me your thoughts if you get this....I had to post! hehe)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sux2bu

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Women in general don't like football.

The ones that do don't make great girlfriends.
 

knighted1

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you are right about that....but I figured it may be a decent, casual kind of get together .....something a little different to follow up the first date...plus I kNOW they like the commercials....I jsut dont want to jump the gun thats all...
 
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