"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SuperBowl date tonight? too soon?

knighted1

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Hey fellas....
Quick question:
I had a very good first date on Friday night with a very attractive and cool chick....the night ended with a long kiss, yada yada...
anyways, we texted abck and forth yesterday a couple of times saying how great of a time we both had....and left it at that. I was thinking of inviting her over tonight to watch the big game on my big screen....
is it too soon or not?
(rizzo email me your thoughts if you get this....I had to post! hehe)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sux2bu

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Women in general don't like football.

The ones that do don't make great girlfriends.
 

knighted1

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you are right about that....but I figured it may be a decent, casual kind of get together .....something a little different to follow up the first date...plus I kNOW they like the commercials....I jsut dont want to jump the gun thats all...
 
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