"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Super Bowl Today! Giants or Patriots?
- Thread starter HandyAndy
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
[S]alvatore
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comic_relief
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oakraiderz2
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Me too. Mostly i hope the patriots impload.[S]alvatore said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ready123
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Ken785
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To go undefeated and lose the Superbowl = All your dreams go up in shambles
I feel sorry for the Patriots...thats gotta hurt!
[S]alvatore
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ValleyDJing
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Victory Unlimited
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...looks like news of the death of the giants was a bit premature, to say the least. So much for the media, the has-been players, the unathletic "commentators", and the bandwagon jumpers' big victory parties they all had planned WEEKS AGO.
I see I voted correctly hours ago. The Mannings are from the Victory Unlimited HOME STATE of Tennessee-----so I'm somewhat happpy for them. But too bad I didn't care enough about the outcome (as neither team was necessarily "my team"). But had I placed a bet...I'd have enough cash right now to buy at least a "small" country...:yes:
Anyway, this just proves that ain't a damn thang over until it's OVER.
Peace to FANS of BOTH of these hard-fighting assed teams.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Señor Fingers
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.