"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bballer7389

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I've been reading threads around here and this is some good stuff. I wouldn't say Im a complete DJ, but im not really a shy guy either. I do have a quick Question that's probally been answered, so all Im asking for is if there were threads on this. but here's my question:

There's this chick I met real cute girl, Got her # met her in person a few times, I've given her the old C & F for a while, but she has a man. But shes not exactly happy w/ the relationship but shes not hating it to end it. So Im jsut wondering if there's a way for me to gauge whether shes getting into me? Because shes been calling me alot and talknig to me ALOT online and stuff. Thanks Guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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She's a monkey and is just waiting for a better branch to come along so that she can swing from the old one to it.

She just needs enough reasons to leave the BF and pursue you.

your goal would be to communicate ways (actions, not words) that you are better for her. Make her pursue you.

I personally have done this with girls who had BF's but it never works out... I can't trust girls who will leave their BF at the drop of a hat for me; because they will probably turn around and do the same thing to me as they did to the other BF.

It's your call... but proceed with caution.
 

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Depends on what you want. If you want a quick fling it may work out for you - just make a bold move at the right time.

If you want a relationship with her then its pretty futile while she has a BF.
 

lildevil

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This girl seems like she is getting a bit tired and she just wants someone that probably can understand her a lil better and you know dont try to hard to get this girl because you might become needy and girls dislike needy guys. so i would advice to test the waters with other girls which is going to make you rare and less needy not many guys know this, but this is a weapon of mass seduction.Just for the fact that she they feel that this kind of guys dont comearound everyday.
 

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Thanks guys, to those who thinks shes a BF *****, shes not that type of Girl...I jsut want to know if theres a way for me to test her to see if shes into me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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asdfghjkl

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Bballer7389 said:
I jsut want to know if theres a way for me to test her to see if shes into me?

Try advancing on her physically if you want to really see
 
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