"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been reading threads around here and this is some good stuff. I wouldn't say Im a complete DJ, but im not really a shy guy either. I do have a quick Question that's probally been answered, so all Im asking for is if there were threads on this. but here's my question:

There's this chick I met real cute girl, Got her # met her in person a few times, I've given her the old C & F for a while, but she has a man. But shes not exactly happy w/ the relationship but shes not hating it to end it. So Im jsut wondering if there's a way for me to gauge whether shes getting into me? Because shes been calling me alot and talknig to me ALOT online and stuff. Thanks Guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's a monkey and is just waiting for a better branch to come along so that she can swing from the old one to it.

She just needs enough reasons to leave the BF and pursue you.

your goal would be to communicate ways (actions, not words) that you are better for her. Make her pursue you.

I personally have done this with girls who had BF's but it never works out... I can't trust girls who will leave their BF at the drop of a hat for me; because they will probably turn around and do the same thing to me as they did to the other BF.

It's your call... but proceed with caution.
 
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Depends on what you want. If you want a quick fling it may work out for you - just make a bold move at the right time.

If you want a relationship with her then its pretty futile while she has a BF.
 
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This girl seems like she is getting a bit tired and she just wants someone that probably can understand her a lil better and you know dont try to hard to get this girl because you might become needy and girls dislike needy guys. so i would advice to test the waters with other girls which is going to make you rare and less needy not many guys know this, but this is a weapon of mass seduction.Just for the fact that she they feel that this kind of guys dont comearound everyday.
 
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Thanks guys, to those who thinks shes a BF *****, shes not that type of Girl...I jsut want to know if theres a way for me to test her to see if shes into me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bballer7389 said:
I jsut want to know if theres a way for me to test her to see if shes into me?
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Try advancing on her physically if you want to really see
 
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