"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sunshine Girl Trap

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When younger, I was an AFC. How I did it, I do not know... but I was able to anchor a women. :eek:

After much AFCness and errors, I promptly decided to destroy our relationship and forget about the "love" that people talk about these days. Thus, my state of mind changed and I took the route to become a DJ. I'm still on it and that's why I need your help, DJs.

I know, I know. The Sunshine Girl Trap is as old as the world. I met one.

If you would meet a Sunshine Girl, would you work on it and try to get in her pants or just do not touch it with a ten-foot pole?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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damn I haven't heard that term in a while.

I had a GF that was a sunshine girl once.

it depends on what you want out of her. however both are achieved using the same method.. leave her alone.

sunshine girls crave attention. if you don't give it to them, they chase it, and eventually get desperate, and will literarly fvck their ways to your heart. happens all the time. it was how (not knowing at the time) I got my sunshine Girl.

however, these ar'net women you date seriously or take seriously, so that's the down part about it. however you can't make her what she's not. Get on the ride for your 2 mintues and get off
 

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backbreaker said:
sunshine girls crave attention. if you don't give it to them, they chase it, and eventually get desperate, and will literarly fvck their ways to your heart. happens all the time. it was how (not knowing at the time) I got my sunshine Girl.

however, these ar'net women you date seriously or take seriously, so that's the down part about it. however you can't make her what she's not. Get on the ride for your 2 mintues and get off
. . .Backbreaker . . .It's almost as though a diamond bullet hit you right through the head . . .Excelently put!:up: . . Dealing with SUNSHINE girls is almost like the Bruce Lee so nicely put it in his fighting philosophy . . .

. . .As they expand, you contract . .As they contract you expand . .:box:

. . . . . .I recently had to deal and put up with a particularly nasty Sunshine girl, and suffered for it . .I suppose you live and learn . . .But one thing I found in my particular case is that underneath the Sunshine , they can be nasty/damaged/malicious so I would be very careful . .

. . .And quite dissapointlingly , but rather predictably, I found , is that as soon as you put a small but considerable obstacle before them they will turn tail and run rather than deal with it . . . And they will run to the next idiot who willl be prepared to either bend over backward for them, and/or validate their crap . . .

Hope this helps . .
 

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backbreaker said:
sunshine girls crave attention. if you don't give it to them, they chase it, and eventually get desperate, and will literarly fvck their ways to your heart. happens all the time. it was how (not knowing at the time) I got my sunshine Girl.

however, these ar'net women you date seriously or take seriously, so that's the down part about it. however you can't make her what she's not. Get on the ride for your 2 mintues and get off
Thank you kind sir! I'ma keep my eyes open and dig my way in. (no puns intended)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls who are always in dire need of attention and will do whatever they can to get it. (Or something close to this.)

(I was actually gonna link the Urban Dictionnary definition and stopped when I saw that it was all but accurate for the situation :crackup: )
 
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