"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sunglasses at night? Cool or too duchbaggish?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rogue

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I've worked in two restaurants which were in the high end, expensive, ritzy, snobby area of town. Whenever someone wore sunglasses at night, it just pointed out they're an idiot.

But go ahead and do it. It's just less competition for the rest of us.
The club is not the place to do it because most of what people wear to clubs they wouldnt rock on a daily basis.
Wearing sunglasses in dark nightclubs is code for being high on ecstasy.
 

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TheBaconator said:
I've always felt that people wearing sunglasses at night were trying to hard to look cool, however i'm contemplating wearing them out this weekend (silver ones) cuz I shaved and now regret it cuz I look 15 and have doubts a woman will take me seriously.

What do you guys think of dudes who wear glasses out?

Also, any other tips to make myself look like i'm not a freshman in HS until I grow out my facial hair again?

I guess it really depends on the venue. If you are wondering if you look like a douche bag you probably do then (because you give off insecure vibes)... Especially if its a pair of nerdy Blues Brothers specs.
 
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