"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sun Tzu's Museum of Ancient Neg Hits (MUST SEE)

Sun Tzu

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I thought that our techniques were relatively new and only fairly recently defined, until I came across this YouTube vid of Marlon Brando negging a girl back in the mid-60s

http://tinyurl.com/yrbld5

Move ahead to 3:00 where he starts talking to a former Miss USA. At around 5:00 he starts push-pulling and then at 5:10 comes a genuine neg hit, similar to what we use today.

I notice he uses a combination of looking down in an almost shy way, then engaging directly. Repeats as necessary.

I find myself wondering if he is aware of his techniques or if he's a complete natural. Your thoughts?

At any rate, it's a good example of how to dominate. It also illustrates for the newbies the "why, when and how" of neg hits. Do you new guys see why he's doing it and what the effect is?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zerocelcius

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Pimp!
 

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Marlon Brando is amazing. He does what he wants ... he did not really answer girl's interview questions, but instead teases her and asks her about herself, with complete poise and confidence and a slight ****y smile. "Tell us about your new movie" "Why?"
 

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I believe acting in this way is far better then acting like a clown as most PUA would have us doing.

Sorry I didn't mean to touch your ankle.
I always use that!

She has a beautiful voice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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