"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sun Tzu's Museum of Ancient Neg Hits (MUST SEE)

Sun Tzu

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I thought that our techniques were relatively new and only fairly recently defined, until I came across this YouTube vid of Marlon Brando negging a girl back in the mid-60s

http://tinyurl.com/yrbld5

Move ahead to 3:00 where he starts talking to a former Miss USA. At around 5:00 he starts push-pulling and then at 5:10 comes a genuine neg hit, similar to what we use today.

I notice he uses a combination of looking down in an almost shy way, then engaging directly. Repeats as necessary.

I find myself wondering if he is aware of his techniques or if he's a complete natural. Your thoughts?

At any rate, it's a good example of how to dominate. It also illustrates for the newbies the "why, when and how" of neg hits. Do you new guys see why he's doing it and what the effect is?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zerocelcius

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Pimp!
 

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Marlon Brando is amazing. He does what he wants ... he did not really answer girl's interview questions, but instead teases her and asks her about herself, with complete poise and confidence and a slight ****y smile. "Tell us about your new movie" "Why?"
 

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I believe acting in this way is far better then acting like a clown as most PUA would have us doing.

Sorry I didn't mean to touch your ankle.
I always use that!

She has a beautiful voice
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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