"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sun Tzu's Museum of Ancient Neg Hits (MUST SEE)

Sun Tzu

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I thought that our techniques were relatively new and only fairly recently defined, until I came across this YouTube vid of Marlon Brando negging a girl back in the mid-60s

http://tinyurl.com/yrbld5

Move ahead to 3:00 where he starts talking to a former Miss USA. At around 5:00 he starts push-pulling and then at 5:10 comes a genuine neg hit, similar to what we use today.

I notice he uses a combination of looking down in an almost shy way, then engaging directly. Repeats as necessary.

I find myself wondering if he is aware of his techniques or if he's a complete natural. Your thoughts?

At any rate, it's a good example of how to dominate. It also illustrates for the newbies the "why, when and how" of neg hits. Do you new guys see why he's doing it and what the effect is?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zerocelcius

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Pimp!
 

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Marlon Brando is amazing. He does what he wants ... he did not really answer girl's interview questions, but instead teases her and asks her about herself, with complete poise and confidence and a slight ****y smile. "Tell us about your new movie" "Why?"
 

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I believe acting in this way is far better then acting like a clown as most PUA would have us doing.

Sorry I didn't mean to touch your ankle.
I always use that!

She has a beautiful voice
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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