"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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does anyone understand why your gf doesnt want to do anything anymore because of summer?

like is that some bs, that its summer and "i'm free" and wants to hang out with buddies insteaad?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's slightly more acceptable to be a ***** if it's summer vacation.

Take advantage of this. :rockon:
 
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im kinda lost to what the stars are but i think it starts with a B and ends with an itch.

....how the heck do i take advantage of her being that way?
 
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DUDE!!! Im experiencing this same fricken thing. I don't think she's called me 1 time to hang out...i think i've asked her everytime, but she always calls me and tells me she's hanging out with her friends...wtf is this ****???
 
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That's funny, because I'm in the complete opposite situation. This girl who I'm kind of in a relationship with is the one always calling me and I'm always the one telling her I'm hanging out with friends. Summer relationships are very hard and awkward. I need advice on how to handle the situation. I like hanging out with her, but at the same time it is the summer before college and I want some freedom. Like just the other night I went to a club and danced with a few girls I know from high school.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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summer is the best time for alpha males.

if you have a gf and she doesnt want to chill with you...GOOD thats like not having her bvtch while your watching the super bowl.

go out with your homies and other girls and enjoy the summer nights.

and then give her a call and say "hey wsup, a few friends and i went to blaa blaa a couple of nites ago and had a blast...you down to go chill there 2nite?"

if she says no...say "hope your enjoying ur summer as much as ive been....ill give you a call if i find time, Bye"

never call again...the words "find time" for a girl whose your gf will drive her nuts.
 
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well is it usualy considered a small break or a complete breakup when this happens?

cuz shes acting like completely differnt now--not gf like, more friend/not tallking to me
 
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