"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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does anyone understand why your gf doesnt want to do anything anymore because of summer?

like is that some bs, that its summer and "i'm free" and wants to hang out with buddies insteaad?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's slightly more acceptable to be a ***** if it's summer vacation.

Take advantage of this. :rockon:
 
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im kinda lost to what the stars are but i think it starts with a B and ends with an itch.

....how the heck do i take advantage of her being that way?
 
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DUDE!!! Im experiencing this same fricken thing. I don't think she's called me 1 time to hang out...i think i've asked her everytime, but she always calls me and tells me she's hanging out with her friends...wtf is this ****???
 
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That's funny, because I'm in the complete opposite situation. This girl who I'm kind of in a relationship with is the one always calling me and I'm always the one telling her I'm hanging out with friends. Summer relationships are very hard and awkward. I need advice on how to handle the situation. I like hanging out with her, but at the same time it is the summer before college and I want some freedom. Like just the other night I went to a club and danced with a few girls I know from high school.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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summer is the best time for alpha males.

if you have a gf and she doesnt want to chill with you...GOOD thats like not having her bvtch while your watching the super bowl.

go out with your homies and other girls and enjoy the summer nights.

and then give her a call and say "hey wsup, a few friends and i went to blaa blaa a couple of nites ago and had a blast...you down to go chill there 2nite?"

if she says no...say "hope your enjoying ur summer as much as ive been....ill give you a call if i find time, Bye"

never call again...the words "find time" for a girl whose your gf will drive her nuts.
 
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well is it usualy considered a small break or a complete breakup when this happens?

cuz shes acting like completely differnt now--not gf like, more friend/not tallking to me
 
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