"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Allright well my dad signed me up for a speed reading course and i had the oppurtunity to sit next to a hawt girl. So the teacher made us interoduce ourselves in front of the class so when i sat down i asked what school she went to and bla bla bla. We talked for a little bit but since it was a speed reading class we had to read alot we only got liek 10 mins of chatting in. We meet once a week on sundays. I didn't get her digits i felt that we didnt talk long enough. This is basically how our convo went

Me: So what school do you go to?
Her: **** **** Christian you?
Me: Heheh i go to PA
Her: Oh yea i remember we kicked your ass in football
Me: well we did get kinda a late start but look who one state champs:
Her: oh yea thats a nice ring too
Me: Yea so do you know ***
Her: oh yea i know her she talked about you a lil bit
Me: Oh really what all did she say
Her: Ohhh nothing (goes back to reading)

Anything suggestions for next week?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cloud-uk

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:rolleyes: You give 'em bibles, you give 'em boot camps, you give 'em a website...

Why do you think... I think... you're missing the point, based on what I've read in your post?:p
 

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Originally posted by Cloud-uk
:rolleyes: You give 'em bibles, you give 'em boot camps, you give 'em a website...

Why do you think... I think... you're missing the point, based on what I've read in your post?:p
umm what?
 

Evil-Rom

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Originally posted by Aerix
umm what?
He means READ THE FVCKING MANUAL.
 

Capi Crimini

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH.....

DJing without the bible.... Links top right kid..... is like setting up a bookself and reading the manual...... you don't get screwed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah, there's something that you need to make, my man....

YOU NEED TO MAKE A (RHYMES WITH 'GROOVE')!
 
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