"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Summer: How everyone spending their time?

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So now that its summer break (assuming you have a summer break where you live), i'm curious as to what everyones doing to occupy their time?

I love breakdancing, and do alot of that, maybe 2-3 hours a day, and i try to throw in an hour of weight training as well, but the day still feels pretty empty.

Anyone else?


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, since this is a seduction forum, why don't you go pick up girls?

I wish you students would get back in school, though...you run way too much interference out in the field.
 

darth yoda

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Self-improvement in every area, including, but not limited to;

-Bulking up (added about 25 lbs since classes ended in early May).

-Studying and practice for upcoming semester (Music major).

-Reading books on some interesting topics (philosophy, religion, pyschology) for self-improvement.

-Sharpened up my wardrobe

-Dodging crazy internet chicks

-Meditating on the force
 

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Originally posted by darth yoda
Self-improvement in every area, including, but not limited to;

-Bulking up (added about 25 lbs since classes ended in early May).
What kind of cycle you running, lol???

Im a bb'er. no need to hide anything from me ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cheat_LBJ

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Working 60 hours per week at my internship (only 40 of which are paid, but you know -- gotta impress the bosses to get a job offer at the end of it all) and then passing out when I get home.

I seriously fear for how I am ever going to meet women when I graduate next year...I mean, I simply don't have the energy to do ANYTHING after work on weekdays.
 

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I feel what you're saying, cheat. When i have school, its takes all my energy to juggle school, work and bdancing.

It's funny, cuz if you think bout it, it really takes 10 mins to walk out, find a chick and run a mission. But it's getting out of the door that's hard, especially when you're never in the mood cuz of all the pressure.

Just a personal thought.

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It's summer and i'm still in school. Yay for triple pace organic chemistry :down:
 

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Losing weight, strength training, studying for class, reading some books, watching baseball, taking in a few movies. Women are kind of on the back burner right now since college towns get pretty slow during the summer, although I am taking an HB8 out this weekend.
 
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