"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Summer: How everyone spending their time?

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So now that its summer break (assuming you have a summer break where you live), i'm curious as to what everyones doing to occupy their time?

I love breakdancing, and do alot of that, maybe 2-3 hours a day, and i try to throw in an hour of weight training as well, but the day still feels pretty empty.

Anyone else?


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, since this is a seduction forum, why don't you go pick up girls?

I wish you students would get back in school, though...you run way too much interference out in the field.
 

darth yoda

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Self-improvement in every area, including, but not limited to;

-Bulking up (added about 25 lbs since classes ended in early May).

-Studying and practice for upcoming semester (Music major).

-Reading books on some interesting topics (philosophy, religion, pyschology) for self-improvement.

-Sharpened up my wardrobe

-Dodging crazy internet chicks

-Meditating on the force
 

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Originally posted by darth yoda
Self-improvement in every area, including, but not limited to;

-Bulking up (added about 25 lbs since classes ended in early May).
What kind of cycle you running, lol???

Im a bb'er. no need to hide anything from me ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cheat_LBJ

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Working 60 hours per week at my internship (only 40 of which are paid, but you know -- gotta impress the bosses to get a job offer at the end of it all) and then passing out when I get home.

I seriously fear for how I am ever going to meet women when I graduate next year...I mean, I simply don't have the energy to do ANYTHING after work on weekdays.
 

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I feel what you're saying, cheat. When i have school, its takes all my energy to juggle school, work and bdancing.

It's funny, cuz if you think bout it, it really takes 10 mins to walk out, find a chick and run a mission. But it's getting out of the door that's hard, especially when you're never in the mood cuz of all the pressure.

Just a personal thought.

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It's summer and i'm still in school. Yay for triple pace organic chemistry :down:
 

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Losing weight, strength training, studying for class, reading some books, watching baseball, taking in a few movies. Women are kind of on the back burner right now since college towns get pretty slow during the summer, although I am taking an HB8 out this weekend.
 
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