"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Summer goals.

DogFashionDisco

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Well, summer break's basically here, and I'm gonna change a lot over the summer. There are some problems that I need to address, and it's time I solve them. My goals include:


- Start working out. I hate to say it, but I haven't lifted a weight in a long time. It's pretty obvious that I have skinny arms with a small amount of muscle on them. I'm hoping to change that.

- Rejoin martial arts. This sounds pretty pathetic, but I joined martial arts a while ago. It was pretty fun, I even showed a friend, and he joined like 4 months after. Well, then I got a little lazy, quit it, and now my friend is better than me! Well, I'm gonna rejoin martial arts and hopefully catch up with my friend.

- Get a tan. Strange enough, I wear a sweatshirt quite alot. Since I live in Washington, we don't get a whole lot of sun, and when we do, I'm not out to get a sunburn.

- Get my braces off. I've had braces for a long time, and in August (school starts back on the 31st of August), I plan on getting them off. With no braces, not only will I have a way better smile, but my self esteem will skyrocket and I will turn from wimp to pimp! :cool:

- Start practicing guitar. I'm a lazy son of a *****, and most of the time I like to have fun instead of practicing my guitar. I plan on learning and perfecting 10 songs over the summer.

- Practice singing. I am a pretty good singer, I've gotta admit, but I could be better. I'm gonna do a whole lot of singing over the summer, and when I return, I hopefully will form or join a band, becoming the lead singer. I also need to practice my songwriting.

- Quit playing video games and jerking off. Summer gets boring; everyone goes through it. Most kids turn to video games and/or masturbation to pass the time. I, on the other hand, will actually occupy my time with something production such as weight lifting, exercising, playing my guitar, and singing.

- Get the red crap off my face. I'm not quite sure what it is, but I have some red splotches on my face, and I'm hoping to remove them. I've visited a dermatologist, and it could be either rosetia or something else. It can either be treated with some weird face cream or zapping my face with a laser! Either way, I hope to get the red crap off before I return to school.

- Grow some balls. I might have to do some pretty embarassing things in order for me to get over this shyness of mine. But it's necessary, and will help a whole lot with approaching.

- Improve conversation skills. I've gotta admit, I suck ass at conversing with chicks, I just don't know what to say. Well that's gonna change over time with practice. When I return to school, I'll be able to easily talk to any chick without hesitation due to not knowing what to say.

- Improve comedy skills. I am a funny guy, but there's always room for improvement. I'll be watching Comedy Central alot whenever I have the time.


It's quite alot, so I have work to do. When I return in like 3 months, I'm gonna be a totally changed person, for the better. Not only will my handling with the ladies be better, but so will my musical talent, atheletic ability, and comedy skills.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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can i ask a silly question?

what does jerking off have anything to do with anything?

i mean , come on, are you really going to never jerk off again?

if so, what will it prove? that you can go a long time without it? thats not a very hopeful future. you wanna find someone who can accomplish this with, right?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
can i ask a silly question?

what does jerking off have anything to do with anything?

i mean , come on, are you really going to never jerk off again?

if so, what will it prove? that you can go a long time without it? thats not a very hopeful future. you wanna find someone who can accomplish this with, right?
Jerking off is one of the causes of my laziness with chicks, that's why. I'm not really gonna 'stop' it forever, but I will definately try to limit it as much as possible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jerking off is a beautiful tool to get that "x factor" that i really cant describe and dont like it too much out of you. dont overuse it, dont underuse it...thats all.

other than that, nice plan. hope you stick to it.
 
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