"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aight here is the situation im in.
I've known this girl for about 2-3 years and we are good enough friends, many of my guy friends have tried some really weak AFC stuff on her and she shoots em down real fast. Lately though I have been inadvertently getting closer to her (I wasn't trying to game her or anything, I guess my reading these posts have bled into my personality a little (thats the point right? :p )and she was starting to give me IOIs and actually inducing kino with me, this was a couple weeks ago. A couple weeks ago however, exam prep started up so everyone had very little time for anything, (O btw she is a grade lower than me so I had 0 classes with her) right near the last week when i decided to nut up or shut up before school ends for the summer, her brother got into a car accident, he was fine but she was under a lot of pressure/stress, so for 3 days she was either really depressed or out of school, either way, not good for me. So it is summer now which means no classes, but it also means that most of my family is away (every1 who can take me places is gone basically. As i only have my permit I can't drive myself anywhere, and nothing is really nearby) So I am stuck at home for about a week, meanwhile there are parties going on Wednesday Thursday and Friday, which I could convince her to go to if I was able to go myself. (I've been trying to get some of my friends to go / bring me, but no luck so far) So essentially, me options of meeting girls right now are down to almost 0, and my options with this girl as far as I can see are low as well.

So my main questions are, how can I close with her?
and, is there anything I am missing? (opportunities etc)

I appreciate your help

thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dont worry Nino, Ive known her for a few years but I didnt really think of her as a possible target till recently so its not like ive been waiting till now. I aint pinnin my hopes on her, Im not getting any one-itis lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If by being alone by yourself you mean you have the whole house to yourself for a week. I think that means YOU should throw a party.
 
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Nino-Tk said:
Meh hommie 2-3 years!?...wow man I don't know, the situation seems pretty bleak, however have you tried telling her to come to your place? Whatever you do, don't pin your hopes on her only.
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Yo, dawg...I feel ya.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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