"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aight here is the situation im in.
I've known this girl for about 2-3 years and we are good enough friends, many of my guy friends have tried some really weak AFC stuff on her and she shoots em down real fast. Lately though I have been inadvertently getting closer to her (I wasn't trying to game her or anything, I guess my reading these posts have bled into my personality a little (thats the point right? :p )and she was starting to give me IOIs and actually inducing kino with me, this was a couple weeks ago. A couple weeks ago however, exam prep started up so everyone had very little time for anything, (O btw she is a grade lower than me so I had 0 classes with her) right near the last week when i decided to nut up or shut up before school ends for the summer, her brother got into a car accident, he was fine but she was under a lot of pressure/stress, so for 3 days she was either really depressed or out of school, either way, not good for me. So it is summer now which means no classes, but it also means that most of my family is away (every1 who can take me places is gone basically. As i only have my permit I can't drive myself anywhere, and nothing is really nearby) So I am stuck at home for about a week, meanwhile there are parties going on Wednesday Thursday and Friday, which I could convince her to go to if I was able to go myself. (I've been trying to get some of my friends to go / bring me, but no luck so far) So essentially, me options of meeting girls right now are down to almost 0, and my options with this girl as far as I can see are low as well.

So my main questions are, how can I close with her?
and, is there anything I am missing? (opportunities etc)

I appreciate your help

thanks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dont worry Nino, Ive known her for a few years but I didnt really think of her as a possible target till recently so its not like ive been waiting till now. I aint pinnin my hopes on her, Im not getting any one-itis lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If by being alone by yourself you mean you have the whole house to yourself for a week. I think that means YOU should throw a party.
 
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Nino-Tk said:
Meh hommie 2-3 years!?...wow man I don't know, the situation seems pretty bleak, however have you tried telling her to come to your place? Whatever you do, don't pin your hopes on her only.
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Yo, dawg...I feel ya.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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