“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Summer Games: Organisation

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Right, this first week (June 28th- July 4th) is everyone's organisation period.

If you're up for this, you'll get something to work on every week this summer. Starting next week that's 9 weeks, ending on Sept 1st.

Just a recap: This is a self improvement course based on YOU. This is not about girls, but about improving you. The 9 sections will be posted weekly, and the information from them will be incorperated into a set of booklets on self improvement, for you and other guys to hold, keep, collect and cherish:p .

Subjects:
I would like any suggestions about what to put in the course you have. This is what I'm thinking, and every week there will be a main topic with a challenge, and a smaller and probably related side topic or two:

Week 1:Health & Weight Training. You feel good, you look good! Help on sorting out teenage health and nutrition, as well as advice on weight training. Side Topic: Style

Week 2:Bathroom. Shaving, your skin, teeth, your user manual to your body. Side Topic: Bigger ****

Week 3:Cooking. Yes, guys do it too. Learn to feed yourself, and amaze with your cullinary skills! Side Topic: Exercise

Week 4:Media & Philosophy. Get Learning! A Brief guide to becoming a book, film, and current events king. Also, thoughts on what you believe. Side Topic: Literacy

Week 5:Personality. Become funnier and find your source of motivation. Side Topic: Your Speciality

Week 6:Object Manipulation. A whole range of skills, juggling, flair bartending, stick fighting! Side Topic: Magic

Week 7:School Work. Get Straight As, which always helps. Side Topic: Memory, and Life-after-school

Week 8:The Head Game. The psychology of self-improvement and success. Side Topic: Driving

Week 9:Partying. A bit of fun for your hard work!Throwing a good one and enjoying other peoples. Side Topic: Dancing
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THIS IS FOR THOSE THAT WEREN'T PAYING ATTENTION! I want to know anything that bores you in the above, anything you think is missing, and what really excites you up there.

To you great folk who want to help... I've heard from Bjon and JSH that they wouldn't mind helping. Any more help would be great. I could really do with input on Health, Exercise, Media, Magic, Life-after-school, Driving, and Dancing. I also need American input on some of the stuff- e.g. driving. Also a black guy's views on skin care would be great, for example shaving. If you have any suggestions people give them!

This is the week to sort this out people. If you have an idea or opinion, no matter how stupid you think it is, give it.
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If you are going to grab your balls and make yourself a better person- READ THIS!

Right, you all need to do a bit of work before next monday. DOn't skip on these, they might sound silly, but they will help you no end.

1) You are going to need a pin board (a piece of cardboard will do). This needs to have a line down the middle with SKILLS written on the left side and SELF written on the right. You're going to need small pieces of paper and drawing pins too, obviously.

2) You can also draw/print off a table for yourself, weeks 1-9 on down the left, and 2 boxs next to each week (for the main and side topic challenges). and pin said table to the top middle of your board.

3) Start taking care of yourself if you don't already. A) Sleep: 8 hours of deep sleep a night, or you'll grow up a bald miget. B) Supplement, get some multi-vits and cod liver oil, it's good for you. C) Try and shy away from the computer games and wanking. It's messy and unproductive. Sure, jack off about once every 4 days to clear the pipes, but not every goddamn day! You'll need all the energy you can get for the stuff here.

4) If you're a white boy, purchace and apply Tan Accelerator every day. Why tell you this now? It takes 2 weeks to start working, and it'll help stop you burning and make you look good throughout summer.

5) Endevour to get money. Sadly, self improvement isn't free. I will be giving money saving tips all the time, but you will still need a bit of cash to spend. If you get a fat allowance from mummy and daddy:p you're safe, but you might always need to get a job.

As for Motivation... I'm hoping you are all rational people. I'm not just going to say "do this cos I say so", I'll give you good reasons to do this, as well as point you towards good motivational posts to keep you on track. Other than that, it's up to you.

Don't get me wrong, a lot of the things here may not float your boat. For example, magic may not be your cup of tea. That's fine, this is just to expand your horizons, make you try new things. I think it is important to find and do something you love, hence the topic "your speciality". However, the stuff on health, the items that will be on the SELF side of your board should be kept too. Feeling and looking good, and having energy lets you do the skills you want to.

The games begin on Monday 5th July. Get off your asses and get ready to have your most rewarding summer ever. Remember: If you have an idea- SUNDAY IS THE DEADLINE!:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Looks like this is going to be a fun summer :D

In my opinion, we could skin the cooking part. Everyone knows, how to make a sandwich for himself or make pasta. That's useless. Are we going to brag about cookie baking a whole week?

Everything after the fifth weel is great. Can't wait till then.

If you need extra help, I'm your guy.
 

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This sounds awsome...i cant wait till it starts.
 

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Cannot wait! cheers for doing this cloud; i was about to start something like that myself (memory, speed reading, current affairs, writing skills etc)

i can certainly help out with the school stuff - i've got books (and acrobat files) on speed reading and memory - makes studying a piece of piss. here's a post if you want to take a look http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50447
 

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Sounds awesome and I am definitely in. As for the cooking week though, how about a different side topic, since exercise is kinda already covered in health etc in week one...maybe cooking being a side topic and something like style being the main thing (kinda big topic) with maybe music at the side...sounds awesome though.

I can help with school also, as long as it doesn't involve anything legitemate:p , and a few miscellaneous American things...if you got any questions bout anything that I can help with, my AIM's FinnishBassist
 

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I think as a side topic to Personality could be risk taking. Alot of guys on the boards are pussies to afraid to be men. So maybe 1 thing a week. Slightly bolder by the week.

Week 1: Light a firecracker. Its 4th of July.

Week 2: Jump off the high dive.

Week 3: Move a For Sale sign to a different house. <-(fun stuff)

Bath Room side topic could be building your pc muscle. Google it.

Partying is all about peacocking and owning the crowd. Possible lessons on how to be the center of attention.

Sounds cool i want to help.
 

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I. am. In. Yes!

Looking forward to the "object manipulation"
 
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I'm blown away by the interest in this. Yeah, this will be a fun summer if I have anything to do with it.

Slimijs, I left the best till last! But the first stuff is what I deem essential. As for week three, I like Need-2-B-Pimpin's idea of a thread on music. Here's my idea, for week three have the main thread as "Music, Drama, and Art", basicly creative stuff, with the side topic as Style (but have it as a big side topic).

In addition, exercise and weight training can be the main topic for week one, with nutrition and health (heh heh cooking still gets in there!) for week one. Ergo...

Week 1:Exercise & Weight Training. You feel good, you look good! Help on getting fit, as well as advice on weight training. Side Topic: Health and Nutrition

Week 3:Creativity. Music, drama, and art, expressing yourself! As well as "thinking outside the box". Side Topic: Style

Gav, I'll be sure to ask when the school work week comes around. Sounds like you're thinking the same stuff as me. Need-2-B-Pimpin, I'm not going to teach people to cheat :p but I'll ask for the American stuff.

Balanced, I'll put risk taking into both philosophy and personality. It will not, sadly, involve stealing "for sale" signs. Muppet:D . But pc muscles will get put in the "bigger diick" side topic. Sorta "penal mainenance". Mmmm, I can see that being a very mature week...:rolleyes:

All you other guys, thanks for the support. Take part, it will be worth it.

Just to keep this manegeable, I'm not going to use e-mail or AIM, don't really anyway, but if you would like to help (and god do I need it) please post on this thread, preferably highlighted in blue on what topic/s you can give info. How will I work it? Well, before I post that weeks installment, I'll run it by you, and you can add/ take away from it, then send it back to me and it'll get formatted and posted. As for the booklets, I'll start making them, one for each week, after each week is passed, so that all the opinions and ideas can be included. This should (if there is any humanity in the world) keep it sensible;) .

I'm looking forward to this a lot. I hope a lot of people will take part in it. Remember, this can't happen without those with the balls to improve. Hope that sounds like you. Keep the ideas coming.
 

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Ill help, im up for helping with cooking and with exercise and stuff (damn i still gotta do a post on that and why we shouldnt solely focus on weight lifting and why other sports can be beneficial).

Oh yeah and schoolwork.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ill try and help with the creativity part.
 

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I've already posted where I could help, but how about a week on cars? not just how to drive 130 and live, but things like what goes on underneath the hood and how to fix stuff without causing uncontrolled explosions, etc.

Oh! And for object manipulation , I can explain how to make swords and stuff that you can fight with but won't kill each other with.

Lastly, the risky-sh1t-of-the-week idea sounds awesome...can't wait to get started
 

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Let the games begin.

I am in bootcamp but can't get out much so hell I am in both. This is going to be very fun summer.

I like the fact that you are doing this because it will get across to some of the people that this site is not all about getting a piece of a$$.
I am happy that you are going to put in a part about cooking because I always wanted to learn and am learning how to since I don't go out much anymore.
 
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I can help with:

Health
Weight training
Nutrition
Personality
Making your **** bigger and pc muscle exercise
Bathroom
& partying
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Lastly, the risky-sh1t-of-the-week idea sounds awesome...can't wait to get started
Yes, that does sound awsome. Time to grow some balls of steel.

I can help with

Weight training
Nutrition
 

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Side Topic: Style
Week 3:Cooking.
Bathroom
Week 4:Media & Philosophy. Get Learning! A Brief guide to becoming a book, film, and current events king. Also, thoughts on what you believe. Side Topic: Literacy
Week 5:personality. Become funnier and find your source of motivation. Side Topic: Your Speciality
Week 6:Object Manipulation. A whole range of skills, juggling, flair bartending, stick fighting! Side Topic: Magic
Week 7:School Work. Get Straight As, which always helps. Side Topic: Memory, and Life-after-school
Week 8:The Head Game. The psychology of self-improvement and success. Side Topic: Driving
Week 9:partying. A bit of fun for your hard work!Throwing a good one and enjoying other peoples. Side Topic: Dancing


I can gelp with all that ****. I'm pretty good at ART and Music and Acting/Drama and Manipulation


Risky-****-of-the-week I'd be awsome at... but I don't know exactly what you mean... cause a lot fo the stuff I'd think off could involve death and trouble with the law...(like joy-riding,hill jumping)

I also think a fourm on COLOR=blue]Drugs[/COLOR] and Stress and Copeing Drugs not soliciting them but more telling the ups and downs off them and showing the risks and stess is pretty self-explainatory

For school I'm not sure how much I can help... I do know a little greek, and latin. If you want I could teach basic latin here. And from my background I know tons about Writing and style and all that ****. When i actually put myself too it. I can write ten times better then my dad(Professional PR and ex-journalist)

Anyone want to know I know a bit bout rap and freestyling. Used to do that.

I also know a bit of Japanese,Chinese,French, and Italian but i'm pretty blochy in those.

Know lots of little puzzles and stuff to help advance your logicical thinking.

Know about human anatomy. (my moms a nurse so all her old textbooks sit around)

Can help with depression and all those diseases.

Help teach root words prefix,suffix and combingin forms.

I''m happy to share....

Though I might be gone a lot this summer. Got a lot of stuff planned with friends. and I'm designing some things for people.

WaterTiger might help with Art too. You guys could PM her.
 

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Week 1: Light a firecracker. Its 4th of July.
Last year. Me my dad cousin, brother, ect. were at our cottage on Lake Michigan in upper Michigan. Every Year we blow off fireworks but lately in the past years the town has been saying no to it cuase it's turnign into a more 'rich' area. instead of a cottage town. so instead of blwing them off on our beach we went to a rocky point. We were blowing them off and After 15-20 min there's this boat floating towards us... I got this bad feeling. all of sudden these red anfd blue lights went off. We didn't get caught. But It was pretty bed. lol.... Just a memory...
 

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can we include beatboxing as a form of art, is really amusing and fun.
 
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