"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do with the girls you met in college, but live too far away to see, and how do you game in a suburb full of tweens?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Story of my life, luckily one of the girls I'm into lives 5 minutes away but other than that there isn't much gaming I can do. My home friends aren't women I'd get with so it's a sticky situation. I guess if you're gaming girls from college but are too far away try to keep gaming over the summer (not too much you don't want to end up in the friend zone) and then pick up where you left off when you get back in the fall.
 
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Don't bother long-distance gaming chicks. Just stay on her radar with a txt/fb message every now and then so hitting her up once school re-starts is normal. Fortunately, her position isn't much better than yours. She's probably bored as well.

As for suburbia, learn mall game. I recommend Roosh V's "daybang". Changed my life.
 
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I'm in same boat, I guess I'll text her like next month
 
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Wow. This is weird, me and a girl just stated we would talk over the summer. I'm kind of afraid of what I will do, as I like to talk to a lot of women.

My goal will be maintaining frame as much as possible, let her know that I'm busy this summer. Every once in awhile I'll call her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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