"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Summer break from college

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What do with the girls you met in college, but live too far away to see, and how do you game in a suburb full of tweens?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Story of my life, luckily one of the girls I'm into lives 5 minutes away but other than that there isn't much gaming I can do. My home friends aren't women I'd get with so it's a sticky situation. I guess if you're gaming girls from college but are too far away try to keep gaming over the summer (not too much you don't want to end up in the friend zone) and then pick up where you left off when you get back in the fall.
 
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Don't bother long-distance gaming chicks. Just stay on her radar with a txt/fb message every now and then so hitting her up once school re-starts is normal. Fortunately, her position isn't much better than yours. She's probably bored as well.

As for suburbia, learn mall game. I recommend Roosh V's "daybang". Changed my life.
 
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I'm in same boat, I guess I'll text her like next month
 
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Wow. This is weird, me and a girl just stated we would talk over the summer. I'm kind of afraid of what I will do, as I like to talk to a lot of women.

My goal will be maintaining frame as much as possible, let her know that I'm busy this summer. Every once in awhile I'll call her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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