"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Summer 2012 DJ Bootcamp!

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Hey Guys,

I started the bootcamp on Wednesday as the summer is the perfect to meet girls, go out, and generally just have a fun time. I thought i'd post the link here in case anyone is interested as it be nice to see some refreshing posts now and then that are people working on improvement.

Bootcamp guide

week 1 task: 50 hello's
me : 6/50 which is listed in my approach journal.

Have a great time guys!

-AAA
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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15/50 hello's.
 

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Going to a mall helps. I got 10 hello's in an hour. Walked into a store and said hi to security guards and to the store greeters. I also bumped into people looking at the same section at me and said hi.

25/50 Hi's.
 

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The bootcamp is for all ages, ranges of experience, and i'm attempting to conquer my AA fear through bootcamp.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sup. don't know where the old thread went but count me in for this one guess i'll have to start again. dont mind tho, great way to get over AA and get out there, specially with others to compare against/encourage
 

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Go for it Wolf!

You have nothing to lose by doing this challenge and only everything to gain. My first goal is to get past week 1!

Good luck!

AAA
 

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Total Hi's: 32/50
Days left: Less than 2
 
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