"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Summer 2012 DJ Bootcamp!

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Hey Guys,

I started the bootcamp on Wednesday as the summer is the perfect to meet girls, go out, and generally just have a fun time. I thought i'd post the link here in case anyone is interested as it be nice to see some refreshing posts now and then that are people working on improvement.

Bootcamp guide

week 1 task: 50 hello's
me : 6/50 which is listed in my approach journal.

Have a great time guys!

-AAA
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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15/50 hello's.
 
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Going to a mall helps. I got 10 hello's in an hour. Walked into a store and said hi to security guards and to the store greeters. I also bumped into people looking at the same section at me and said hi.

25/50 Hi's.
 
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The bootcamp is for all ages, ranges of experience, and i'm attempting to conquer my AA fear through bootcamp.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sup. don't know where the old thread went but count me in for this one guess i'll have to start again. dont mind tho, great way to get over AA and get out there, specially with others to compare against/encourage
 
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Go for it Wolf!

You have nothing to lose by doing this challenge and only everything to gain. My first goal is to get past week 1!

Good luck!

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Total Hi's: 32/50
Days left: Less than 2
 
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